Okay I have a friend that I plan on taking out to social places one day and hand them down the ways of the Don Juan.
Unfortunately, he lacks the confidence, conversation skills, and other minor fixable DJ problems. I want to help him out by starting out with the leap of faith and talking to female strangers, and if he begins to doubt I'd show him myself that getting the number...or at least talking to a girl...isnt so bad, or that rejection isnt that bad either.
Any of you DJs know a good DJ training method or two that'll really be a challenge for him, but worth the effort in the end?
PS: I'm actually thinking about having us play the whole "who gets the most REJECTIONS" game; it would remove the pressure of him trying to get #'s and make it more fun since he'd have the confidence to face girls since his goal is to get REJECTIONS, not numbers. I've heard and read that this method results in the very opposite; more numbers than rejections. ANYONE TRY THIS OUT AND GOT SUCH RESULTS?
Unfortunately, he lacks the confidence, conversation skills, and other minor fixable DJ problems. I want to help him out by starting out with the leap of faith and talking to female strangers, and if he begins to doubt I'd show him myself that getting the number...or at least talking to a girl...isnt so bad, or that rejection isnt that bad either.
Any of you DJs know a good DJ training method or two that'll really be a challenge for him, but worth the effort in the end?
PS: I'm actually thinking about having us play the whole "who gets the most REJECTIONS" game; it would remove the pressure of him trying to get #'s and make it more fun since he'd have the confidence to face girls since his goal is to get REJECTIONS, not numbers. I've heard and read that this method results in the very opposite; more numbers than rejections. ANYONE TRY THIS OUT AND GOT SUCH RESULTS?
