"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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beyondwtf

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Hey. I'm not sure if I chose the right subject but I need a little advice.

I'm a student recently graduated from High School and I'm right now in abroad studying the local language.

Everyday I see tons of beautiful girls and I feel like... wow. I do feel confident and I do feel like I'm totally able to pull this off. I can talk to strangers.. no problem. I can ask for directions and stuff. But mostly when I really need it. I've never appraoched someone beacuse of interest or attraction.

But the problem is... maybe an excuse. Is that my ability to speak the local language is not good and I don't know if I should use english... beacuse I do look like a local.

Maybe you guys can give a little advice on how to appraoch people with my little language barrier problem?

Thanks!

oh btw.
Guys... I need your help.

I'm about to meet a girl in real life I met online, beacuse... well. I cannot properly meet people properly on the streets beacuse of language barrier, but the girl I'm about to meet can speak english.

Any recommendation?
What should I do to get her? Beacuse she is quite good looking.

I;ve read a lot of this PUA stuff and its all over my head. I think I can do it. the push-pull thing. Dis-interest thing... but idk.

Can someone explain in detail how do you get a girl attracted to you if you are not the BEST looking guy out there? I'm like a little average looking I think haha

I dont want to be a one of those guys, I want to be the guy!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Attraction is about making them feel good. You do that be giving off good vibes. To have good vibes you need to have a high value mindset. The problem why most guys are AFCs is because subconsciously they don't think they're good enough for the woman. This makes them act all nervous. Your subconscious is more powerful then your conscious by 100 if not 1,000 times if not more. So when you meet woman ask yourself as they good enough for you not the other way around.


A quick tip is to treat women like little girls. That means have fun and be in charge of the situation. Don't take them too seriously either. Being serious makes things awkward.
 

beyondwtf

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Okay.

So what exactly do you mean? I actually think Im more than enough for any girl.
But how do you show it?

What do you mean by treating them like little girls?

Last time I messed up... I think. I was all fun and stuff but I felt I was too nice. Now I regret that last time.. so I want to do better this time with another girl.

So.. not being nice, but fun at the same time?

Details anyone?>!
 
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