Venusian Artist
Don Juan
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Some guys come on this forum, and they read so much that they can jsut about hold all of this information in their head, but yet they STILL don't do anything. They still chicken out from talking to HBs, and hardly ever use C+F even if they have thought of a good line, you'd be surprised at how some guys who are so-called 'experts' have in fact not approached a girl in all of their DJing lives. The essence of the DJ spirit, in my opinion, is to live life to the full, and get more out of it, the things you've always dreamed of having.
But here's a few quick things to set you off on the right tracks:
1. (A good tip I have heard) Go out with one of your good friends, not neccessarily a DJ himself, just a few times a week (somewhere were at least a few girls your own age are destined to be), and give your friend a certain amount of cash. For each girl you approach, you get a certain amount back, so say you gave him £25, and got £5 back each time, you would need to do 5 approaches to get all of your money back. This is a very big motivator and gives you a more "I have no choice" perspective.
2. Start practicing on less attractive women, and when you talk to them, just act like you are out to have fun, but use a few techniques and methods you have learned, incorporate all of these. Once you have success with a less attractive girl, keep moving up the ladder, until you get to the hotter girls.
3. Just have fun, don't make it sound obvious what you are doing, just act like you are a social guy, out to have fun.
4. Make sure you look good, not as in anything physical you can't change, make yourself look the best YOU possibly can, get some nice clothes, something that makes you stand out from the crowd just a little.
5. Keep working on your skills, the more you use them, the more they will grow on you, which means, the more easy it becomes to do these things.
Challenge:
1. Approach and begin a conversation with the most attractive girl in your opinion. Whether she is someone at your school, workplace, whatever.
2. Tied with the above, get the NUMBER of this girl
3. And then KISS this girl you have been after in the previous two.
Once you are confident enough to speak to this girl you KNOW you are on the right tracks, if you already speak to this girl, go to the 2nd hottest, and if you know her already too, go on to the 3rd etc. until you come across an attractive girl you have yet to approach. If you have already approached all of the hot girls before, skip number one.
This isn't meant to be a big post that will change your life, because YOU are the one with that power, I can't reach through your screen and magically transform you into Mr. Suave... It's something you have to do YOURSELF... So get out there and do it. The more you do it, the easier it becomes.
But here's a few quick things to set you off on the right tracks:
1. (A good tip I have heard) Go out with one of your good friends, not neccessarily a DJ himself, just a few times a week (somewhere were at least a few girls your own age are destined to be), and give your friend a certain amount of cash. For each girl you approach, you get a certain amount back, so say you gave him £25, and got £5 back each time, you would need to do 5 approaches to get all of your money back. This is a very big motivator and gives you a more "I have no choice" perspective.
2. Start practicing on less attractive women, and when you talk to them, just act like you are out to have fun, but use a few techniques and methods you have learned, incorporate all of these. Once you have success with a less attractive girl, keep moving up the ladder, until you get to the hotter girls.
3. Just have fun, don't make it sound obvious what you are doing, just act like you are a social guy, out to have fun.
4. Make sure you look good, not as in anything physical you can't change, make yourself look the best YOU possibly can, get some nice clothes, something that makes you stand out from the crowd just a little.
5. Keep working on your skills, the more you use them, the more they will grow on you, which means, the more easy it becomes to do these things.
Challenge:
1. Approach and begin a conversation with the most attractive girl in your opinion. Whether she is someone at your school, workplace, whatever.
2. Tied with the above, get the NUMBER of this girl
3. And then KISS this girl you have been after in the previous two.
Once you are confident enough to speak to this girl you KNOW you are on the right tracks, if you already speak to this girl, go to the 2nd hottest, and if you know her already too, go on to the 3rd etc. until you come across an attractive girl you have yet to approach. If you have already approached all of the hot girls before, skip number one.
This isn't meant to be a big post that will change your life, because YOU are the one with that power, I can't reach through your screen and magically transform you into Mr. Suave... It's something you have to do YOURSELF... So get out there and do it. The more you do it, the easier it becomes.