Newbie seeking for advice!

[Lyrical]

Hi everyone, first of all Happy New Year! :woo:
I discovered SS a couple of weeks ago and I liked it, but didn't really get into deep stuff.
I'm 16 years old and live in a small city so life here is kinda boring. Till the 9th grade I've always been a non-social person but when I went in High school last year I started socializing a bit but only with my classmates. I made 3 best female friends and a some new male friends too. Now I go to every party with my mates and to clubs, but still haven't found a girlfriend or better say haven't tried too much for that.
To get a girldfriend here you should normally chat with her for 3weeks to 1 month on Facebook and then meet and 90% of cases you get her. But I've always been a lazy person and afraid to make the first step. I gotten close to get a girlfriend last year with a girl 1 year younger than me which seemed interested at first than she lost interest and stuff and I screw it up.
I'm skinny like 5'11" (178cm) and 116lbs and I should gain like 14-24lbs in like 4-5months.
Thanks in advance guys and have fun! :rock:

 

[NorwegianDJ]

You're not really asking any questions. State your questions more clearly.

If say you're not getting any chicks, then I ask you: how much are you going out?

Realize that chicks wont take the lead for you, atleast they shouldn't. They wont take the first step. You'll have to do that.
Don't listen to your mind, listen to your inner masculine energy. It's what makes you turn your head and look at THAT ASS. "That's for me."
The mind will quickly interfere and come up with reasons why you cant talk to her, ignore it.

It's just a process you pushing yourself and acting in spite of fear. You will soon realize that rejection is quite fun.
Rejection is ALWAYS better than regret.

Dont be afraid to act in spite of the norms man.

 

[Lyrical]

You're not really asking any questions. State your questions more clearly.

If say you're not getting any chicks, then I ask you: how much are you going out?

Realize that chicks wont take the lead for you, atleast they shouldn't. They wont take the first step. You'll have to do that.
Don't listen to your mind, listen to your inner masculine energy. It's what makes you turn your head and look at THAT ASS. "That's for me."
The mind will quickly interfere and come up with reasons why you cant talk to her, ignore it.

It's just a process you pushing yourself and acting in spite of fear. You will soon realize that rejection is quite fun.
Rejection is ALWAYS better than regret.

Dont be afraid to act in spite of the norms man.

Sorry it's my fault, my first post here and forgot to clearly post my question. Inf fact I just need some advice about what should I read as a newbie, or what stuff should I check up.
And yeah thanks about the advice cuz my mind brings up lots of things before I go talk to women and in my city people are afraid of people who go and talk to everyone without knowing them before. Everyone is in their own social circle and call weird those who want to enter their social circle.
So I just wanna enter this community but don't know where to start. Any help would be appreciated.
PS: Sorry about my English, I'm still improving.

 

[NorwegianDJ]

Sorry it's my fault, my first post here and forgot to clearly post my question. Inf fact I just need some advice about what should I read as a newbie, or what stuff should I check up.
And yeah thanks about the advice cuz my mind brings up lots of things before I go talk to women and in my city people are afraid of people who go and talk to everyone without knowing them before. Everyone is in their own social circle and call weird those who want to enter their social circle.
So I just wanna enter this community but don't know where to start. Any help would be appreciated.
PS: Sorry about my English, I'm still improving.

Go spam the other forums so you get enough post-counts for a PM. 10 should do. Then I can send you the stuff needed.
You will NOT gain anything on this unless you proactively "live on the edge". You should always push yourself.
Some people fvck 2-5 chicks a week after a year, and some people dont get succes before 4 years prior to learning. It's all about how much you go out and put yourself on the line.

 

[Lyrical]

Go spam the other forums so you get enough post-counts for a PM. 10 should do. Then I can send you the stuff needed.
You will NOT gain anything on this unless you proactively "live on the edge". You should always push yourself.
Some people fvck 2-5 chicks a week after a year, and some people dont get succes before 4 years prior to learning. It's all about how much you go out and put yourself on the line.

I tried to send you a PM since I registered here because I have read your jornal and there are some points which I can relate to myself, now I understand why I couldn't. Thanks bro, I'll try to post some comments now.

 

[NorwegianDJ]

I tried to send you a PM since I registered here because I have read your jornal and there are some points which I can relate to myself, now I understand why I couldn't. Thanks bro, I'll try to post some comments now.

Spam your own thread man! Haha.
I'll be away untill the 15th now tho. I'll link DJ_Hero, then u can harrass him on PMs

 

[Lyrical]

Lol in fact I was thinking of doing some stupid comments on this thread. Thanks for your help.

 

[Lyrical]

*insert stupid comment here*
Sorry guys need to do this haha

 

[Lyrical]

Btw how was last night?

 

[Lyrical]

Damn spamming is hard.

 

[NorwegianDJ]

I suppose if you do a good job as a spammer before I go to bed, then I get to PM u. If not, then Ive already PM'd DJ_Hero.

Im encouraging spamming.. Shame
SPAMSPAMSPAMSPAM

Last night sucked. Went to bed at 10, Im so damn sick
Woke up by a thunderstorm and couldnt fall asleep again because my bed was soaked, haha!

btw, its a 10 comments per 1440 minutes (24 hours) max here. Shame if you need like 11, haha.

Maybe its kinda a good thing to do if you care what people on this forum thinks of you. IM FINISHED ENCOURAGING SPAMMING NOW!

 

[Lyrical]

2 comment to go.

 

[Lyrical]

1 needed now.

 

[Lyrical]

Done *sigh*
Shame on you that encouraged me lol.
I should change my name to noluck, but yea send me a email I check my email everyday(and I'm not a business man).

 

[NorwegianDJ]

HAhahahahahahaha, it didnt work! Maaaaaaaan. I thought it was 10 comments.
Maybe the forums doesnt encourage spamming after all..
I could possibly send you an email, would that work? Just edit a spam post to answer.
Sent an email now.
Sent a PM now. Seems like you need 10 posts and being registered for a few hours/20 minutes after 10th post.