"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hi, Ive been reading the stuff on this site and it's overwhelming. I'm 38, divorced with no kids, 6 ft. tall and skinny (170 lb.), also balding. Any advice on what i should focus on learning or is it too late? thx
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why are you telling us that you are balding? We don't care what you look like. We only care that you make yourself a better person.

Read the DJ bible.
 

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the dj bible is better than david deangelo stuff?
 

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Welcome Mike38,


The DJ Bible is free. You have to pay for David's stuff. Advice in the DJ bible is culled from articles written by real guys who have decided to share their methods.

The first thing that you need to do is raise your self-esteem. Ever see a hottie with a dorky looking guy? Well I have, many times.
It's not impossible for you to be with a hottie.

Focus on your inner person first and then the outer person.

Read the DJ Bible because it has many tips and methods on improving yourself.

Post questions only after you have read at least some of the DJ Bible.
 
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