Anon
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So there's this girl at school I quite like... up until a few weeks ago I didn't even know her name, but I noticed her standing alone before parent's evening one day and struck up a convo. She's REALLY shy and quiet but did make an effort to carry on the convo. She's an 8-9/10, really cute, asian. We're both 17.
Well, we chatted for about 10mins that evening, I didn't number close stupidly (I know, I suck) and left to find my parents. Since then I've only really spoke to her twice, for no more than 2mins each time, just small talk really :|. If i pass her in the corridor and we're alone, she smiles and says hi, if she's with friends she doesn't. She's not in any of my classes and if I ever see her in the canteen at lunch she's with her friends and I'm with mine.
Just today I saw her coming out the library before class and said hi, asked how she was etc. She was reserved as usual. Convo carried on something like this:
me: So what time do u finish today?
her: 4:15
me: me too. Are u walking back to town? (I know she always does this on Thursdays at 4:15)
her: Yeah
me: I might see u out there then, if u fancy it?
her: I'm walking back with a friend
me: Ah...ok
Yeah i suck
Then we parted ways and she left without saying bye
I know she always walks to town on Thursdays with her friend, but I dunno... if it was me I'd cancel with a friend to walk with her
This is really stressing me out, I overanalyze everything. I'm not very good at this. School is out for 2 weeks next Fri and I definately want to do something one way or another before then. I know where I can wait for her some days to get her alone but that only gets me a minute or two of convo. Or I could get lucky and her friend would be ill someday :|
So, any advice of what I could do, or should I just move on? (not that there's anyone to move on to). I could like, say I'd really like to get to know her better and ask for her number so we could catch up sometime over the break. I'd probably do a really **** job of that btw. Nerves own me.
I'm an average looking guy I guess. Not the kind of guy that gets approaced by girls. Nothing special. But not repulsive
My first post here btw, nice forum. Been lurking for a few weeks. Learnt a lot of good stuff, thanks.
So there's this girl at school I quite like... up until a few weeks ago I didn't even know her name, but I noticed her standing alone before parent's evening one day and struck up a convo. She's REALLY shy and quiet but did make an effort to carry on the convo. She's an 8-9/10, really cute, asian. We're both 17.
Well, we chatted for about 10mins that evening, I didn't number close stupidly (I know, I suck) and left to find my parents. Since then I've only really spoke to her twice, for no more than 2mins each time, just small talk really :|. If i pass her in the corridor and we're alone, she smiles and says hi, if she's with friends she doesn't. She's not in any of my classes and if I ever see her in the canteen at lunch she's with her friends and I'm with mine.
Just today I saw her coming out the library before class and said hi, asked how she was etc. She was reserved as usual. Convo carried on something like this:
me: So what time do u finish today?
her: 4:15
me: me too. Are u walking back to town? (I know she always does this on Thursdays at 4:15)
her: Yeah
me: I might see u out there then, if u fancy it?
her: I'm walking back with a friend
me: Ah...ok
Yeah i suck
Then we parted ways and she left without saying bye
I know she always walks to town on Thursdays with her friend, but I dunno... if it was me I'd cancel with a friend to walk with her
This is really stressing me out, I overanalyze everything. I'm not very good at this. School is out for 2 weeks next Fri and I definately want to do something one way or another before then. I know where I can wait for her some days to get her alone but that only gets me a minute or two of convo. Or I could get lucky and her friend would be ill someday :|
So, any advice of what I could do, or should I just move on? (not that there's anyone to move on to). I could like, say I'd really like to get to know her better and ask for her number so we could catch up sometime over the break. I'd probably do a really **** job of that btw. Nerves own me.
I'm an average looking guy I guess. Not the kind of guy that gets approaced by girls. Nothing special. But not repulsive
My first post here btw, nice forum. Been lurking for a few weeks. Learnt a lot of good stuff, thanks.