"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Newbie in Need of Help

Jon55

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I weighed 120 pounds for pretty much all of my teen years, and about a year & a half ago I jumped up to 140 (I'm 21 now). Thing is, I hadn't been working out during that time. And just looking in the mirror at my face I can tell I've put on fat (I kinda have a belly too which is just weird as hell to me because I've had such a flat stomach for so long).

So I'm sick of it. I used to have an OK workout schedule but never had the right diet to go with it. I want to get rid of this body fat and start building.

What are the key things I should be eating? Weight supplements?

What type of workout would you recommend? On what days?


The reason I ask is, well, I honestly don't know what I'm doing. And I'm too broke to hire a personal trainer =(

But I am ready to learn and actually do the work and end this skinny nancy boy body that I've been living with all my life once and for all.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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int3l

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It's probably best for me to tell you this quick smart; read the stickies. They're there for a reason. Then you can probably ask more specialized questions with things you really don't get. Oh, also there is a lot of information out there and lots of it will sound conflicting, so don't get too anal about the info and just go out there and lift it.
 

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yeah you've posted 163 times on this forum. I'm assuming you've posted on other forums as well. Seems like you'd know the first place to always look are the stickys. Theres 2 stickies on this forum. Make us proud and fine the one that answers your question :)
 

Jon55

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My bad guys, laziness took control (which is ironic because I think the lazy thing to do would of been to just check the stickies). Anyway, thanks for the pointing in the right direction.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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