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Newbie Here Please Critique My Text Exchange With a HB9+ Model

Speculator E

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[Note: This is for a friend of mine that just register but for some reason can't post a thread]

Hi All

Long time lurker here. I'm still a newb at this and want to see if I'm doing this texting right. And this is my first HB9+. Thanks.

I was talking to this girl online. Turns out she's a dancer and model. She does car shows and she's been in a movie. I know because she shared her facebook page. It started out with email exchanges. Then move to texting. I started out good, but I was sensing that my game was going beta so I changed it around on the second day. Here's our recent conversation on the third day.

http://img690.imageshack.us/img690/7272/zk3z.png

I want to know if I did good or did I screwed it up?

Can anyone tell me why she suddenly gotten quiet on the last couple of texts. Before she was energetic and reply quick.

And I know there's some $hit tests in there but I can't be 100% that there were or not. It's hard for me to tell. If so how did I handle it?

I decided to end the conversation after the last text to keep her guessing. Was that the right move or should I have kept the conversation going? And last should I try to ask her to hang out on the next conversation?

Thanks in advance.
 

zinc4

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horrible texting...just horrible all the way around....use texting to set up dates and get out...stop texting crap like this...you killed all chances...next
 

pinkfl

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That was painful to read.

Anyways, stop texting. Stand out and call her and ask her to hang out, or invite her to do something you know that she likes.
 

JoeMarron

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Too many questions bro. It sounds like she applying for a job as your personal pleasure servant and this is the interview. The general rules to go by in conversation with women is to keep it playful, always tease, have her do more of the talking but dont bombard her with questions, be sexual and dont reveal too much about yourself. You really should be getting her out on a date soon. All this texting and emailing is counterproductive.
 

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that really hurt, what makes you a great catch? did you ask her that?! You are the great catch my friend, not her. Just stop, read the DJB and apply that information. Less texting. You can tell after that last question she was thinking to herself "wow forget this guy".

If it helps I only text girls for fun Monday, wednesday, or friday (maybe) and anytime to set up dates.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Speculator E said:
[Note: This is for a friend of mine that just register but for some reason can't post a thread]

Hi All

Long time lurker here. I'm still a newb at this and want to see if I'm doing this texting right. And this is my first HB9+. Thanks.

I was talking to this girl online. Turns out she's a dancer and model. She does car shows and she's been in a movie. I know because she shared her facebook page. It started out with email exchanges. Then move to texting. I started out good, but I was sensing that my game was going beta so I changed it around on the second day. Here's our recent conversation on the third day.

http://img690.imageshack.us/img690/7272/zk3z.png

I want to know if I did good or did I screwed it up?

Can anyone tell me why she suddenly gotten quiet on the last couple of texts. Before she was energetic and reply quick.

And I know there's some $hit tests in there but I can't be 100% that there were or not. It's hard for me to tell. If so how did I handle it?

I decided to end the conversation after the last text to keep her guessing. Was that the right move or should I have kept the conversation going? And last should I try to ask her to hang out on the next conversation?

Thanks in advance.
Brah that was brutally brutally BRUTALLY bad. IF I was a girl, especially a hot girl who can have her pick of the liter, I would be like "who the fawk does this guy think he is"? You come across as very possessive. Very clingy. Very serious. Almost psycho. Who wants to answer all of those personal questions over text with someone you don't even know? No one.

Keep initial texts light, fun, and BRIEF. Set up a date and go from there. You are acting like you are setting up a marriage.

Just wow.
 

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When Trying To Seem Like A Challenge And The Prize Goes Wrong...

That's what this text exchange felt like.


It's like you're trying to come from a place of superiority that you feel the need to vocalize it at every point. BUT THE GIRL WAS 10000% RIGHT. She doesn't know you and the conversation you were having was ridiculous, not to mention if you truly had balls you'd be asking these kinds of things (not that you should go about it in the way you did) face to face. Keep it simple. Take her out. And then show (don't tell) how much of a challenge you are on the date.
 

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He didn't like the answers he got on the other one. :crackup:
 

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Fruitbat said:
My last time I text asked out a girl:

Me "Do you like pidgeons?"
Her "What?!"
Me "Honest question"
Her "Wierd question. They're OK I guess"
Me "would you want to see them starve to death?"
Her "Wierder lol. No obviously not"
Me "They have plenty at "my local coffee house". You want to go feed them? Breads on me"
Her "Well, I can't say no can I?"
Me "correct....time blah"

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Who the fvck is this guy? I love it! I'll be using that and variants of it, Fruit Bat. Good shyt mate.
Sorry, I won't be paying royalties.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Ronaldo7

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Haha. What kind of a faggot texts like that? She must think you are a scared b1tch.
 

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Holy ****. I'm still new to the DJ ways and I cringed while reading that exchange.
 

frisco

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Your qualifying and comfort building when you should be running attraction and setting up a date! And fruit bat that is pure gold deff. gonna try it.
 
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