"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Newbie here, get me started

Randy_Johnson

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Alright, here's to getting started. Cheers!

I'm 19, and a freshman in college. At school I met a really cute girl, she was probably an 8 and we dated for a while but we broke up because she cheated. At that point, I recognized a lot of the stuff I was doing was AFC nice guy stuff and that my whole life I had let people walk all over me.

A little bit about myself:
I have terrible curly hair. I've been keeping it short to stop from getting little boy "jew curls". I'm considering spiking it up or doing a faux-hawk on days when I'm going out.
I'm VERY smart, I know a lot about a lot of topics. I go to a great school, but even there I do better in school and am just a level above most people.
I'm short and skinny. I used to be a great runner, but since college I've recognized that I need to gain weight. I've been lifting the past few months, I've gained weight pretty fast but I'm still small and skinny. Any way to make this a plus?
I have a twin, he's a natural. I've always been a little nervous around girls, which I've covered up by having a sense of humor. I'm funny, but not exactly sexy. It's worked for me so far, but I could do better.
I play bass in a band, that's something I think I should play up.
I talk way too much... clearly I need to cut down on that and focus on being a listener and "mysterious"

So what can I do? If there are any essential reading materials, hook me up. I learn fast, I'm a decent looking dude and I'm on the path to better myself. I've had some success with good looking women, but I'm not a DJ by any means and I'd like to change.

I'm home from school right now, there's a 10 in my town who always thought I was the cute nerdy kid, she's a popular type girl. She wants to hang out, I could maybe take a chance there?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Alextheegreat

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The dj bible is the guide you need, the link is on the lower left hand corner of this page. There is a Bootcamp for newbies, like myself, that should help you with this confidence matter. Best of luck my friend.
 

Randy_Johnson

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I'll work on the bootcamp when I get back to school, I haven't been able to get out much at home. I've been reading the Book of Pook, I'll move onto the DJ Bible next, thanks man.
 
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