"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Denialorcoped

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Hey guys, I've been reading this content on this site of a number of years, and love it. Here's my biggest problem. I KNOW most of this stuff, but for some reason I which I don't know why, I have a problem executing the things I've learned here; I usually, no ALWAYS, resort back to my chump ways even though I know it's not working. Why is this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Denialorcoped said:
Hey guys, I've been reading this content on this site of a number of years, and love it. Here's my biggest problem. I KNOW most of this stuff, but for some reason I which I don't know why, I have a problem executing the things I've learned here; I usually, no ALWAYS, resort back to my chump ways even though I know it's not working. Why is this?
get "lucas west - demonic confidence" or "Ron Louis and David Copeland - the mastery program" or "David Wygant - Become A Master Communicator"

in short stop reading and go out have fun at first then start to talk with random people at random subjects and even after that start to hit on girls

the program doesn't work- you work
it is not the program that hits on girls-it is you
stop reading-start doing

cheers
p.s. god i love smiles :rockon:
they should make a :beer: smile
 
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