"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maybe a newbie forum should be created to accomodate all the idiotic questions..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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silverwex

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HERE HERE!

But what are the chances of the mods doing this?

Zilch...
 

boneszone

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Since this forum has turned into newbies asking the same questions over and over again without putting what they learn into action(the armchair seducers, and you know who you are) I can host an Advanced Forum for those of us who understand the basics and are ready to move on.

Now I'm not saying I'm a expert PUA but I have move passed the basics and want to learn more tactics and techniques to help with my game (as well as some others I'm sure too).

It would be moderated so only the posts that go past the basics and deal with more Advanced techniques will get posted.

What do you think?

Bones
 

drixsa

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this is getting repeated by the day.

no one would visit the "newbie forum" cause there wouldnt be anything interesting to read just repetitive questions.

regardless of how many questions you could answer and put in there face everyone thinks that there situation is different.

just the way the world works fellas
 

Black Bahindian

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Actually, it's because these newbies are going to ask the same stupid questions without applying it with experience is the reason why a newbie form would be useless.

No veteran from this site would think about going to that forum because they feel ashamed for these people for asking the same stupid questions - leaving the newbies to ramble about if they should go for the number/date/kiss bullshyt.

A better thing to do, which something someone said before, is to put a simple test consisting of essential parts of the DJ Bible that newbie would have to pass to register in posting.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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