newb don_juan - bad experience

[don_juan_20]

So, I changed my look a bit. Lately, I've been getting more looks from the ladies and I've started to carry myself more confidently.

Three numbers so far and then it happened...

I was sitting down, relaxing when some guy came and sat down near me. The guy had some fruitty voice while talking on the phone but I disregarded it.

Suddenly I noticed the guy had turned around completely and was staring at me. The **** began to hit on me. I was being hit on my a gay guy. Wtf?

I feel like dumping all this better looks **** if this continues to happen. I figure I sit manly. My legs are seperated I sit pretty comfortable and always checking out the ladies. Do you don juans usually get approached by this type?

btw: no I don't wear jeans with fades in them..

 

[Avsguy01]

If your attracting attention from the ladies why change what a single attraction from a guy might have for you. Being a Don Juan means you accept all different lifestyles, and you should, cause it doesnt matter to you. I have a gay friend does that mean im gay? No, it just means he lives his life the way he wants to and i am friends with him for his personality not what he does in bed. Don Juan's are confident of themselves and shouldnt have to question or be angry if your hit on by a lesbian(although i would love to be hit on by that), gay, fat, ugly....etc..you get the point. Just continue what your doing and dont mind if you get hit on. Its like the same token of you hitting on a girl that ends up being a pure lesbo. Just be open and continue your ways of getting the ladies.

 

[don_juan_20]

Its more of a fear of coming off gay. That's whats worrying me.

I don't really care, but if this really flamboyant guy comes up to me I feared that I may be conveying something.

 

[Avsguy01]

Dont worry your not conveying anything unless deep down inside you think you are. Why should you have these feelings if your more than confident about yourself. Dont let these little things get to ya. Go get the ladies! Keep up the work with the numbers your gettting.

 

[Dimebag_Darrell]

you should feel proud that even the guys are hitting on you.

It probably means the women like your looks as well........

 

[Kodiac]

Dude, thats nothing.

I had a 42 year old come up to me in the pub a month or two back, and invited me over for some "Coffee" haha, he wouldn't let up!! Saying how attractive he thought i was etc etc..

I thought it was funny as hell

Who gives a fuk ? If you look good, what do you expect ?
Keep it up. You know what you are / aren't!

 

[The Business Man]

Yea, don't worry about it. Gay guys have hit on me before but I don't let it bother me.

Just ignore it.