"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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New York City on Saturday evening is drowning in hot women

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So i entered a separation after my marriage of 8 years and started hanging out a lot. (So far i haven't slept with anyone by my wife - sex was never a problem - we still have it 2x/week). Yesterday, Saturday, my buddy and me ended up on Lower East Side and were surrounded by HORDES of attractive women. We felt like we are in some weird sci-fi film where most men went extinct. Groups of 3 or 5 attractive women standing around aimlessly looking for the next thing to do.

On our short walk to my friends speakeasy club we were smiled on twice and waved on once.

I brought it up to my friend who is general manager at this speakeasy bar/dance club and she mentioned that night-after-night they have 80% women and only 20% men in there.

Gentlemen, drop the silly dating apps and just go out!

It all felt like this scene from the Monty Python:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I have found the same thing, many single women go without right now
 

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I don't understand this at all. Most metro areas in the U.S. have a surplus of single men to single women.
 

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I don't understand this at all. Most metro areas in the U.S. have a surplus of single men to single women.
I'm not sure what country you are based in or how much you've traveled but in the states, there is enormous variation from one metro area to the next.

San Fran/Silicon Valley is literally one of the worst, if not the worst cities for single men. It's so bad that I have seen many, many guys literally having to buy their girlfriends houses or finance monthly vacations just to keep a 6 or higher around. Dating in SF is literally open prostitution for the highest bidder, which is almost always an astronomical sum. I've seen relatively attractive MILF's pushing 50 yawning in the faces of multi-millionaires trying to pitch their multi million dollar homes and lifestyles.

Some cities are almost the opposite where there is a glut of single women. In some of these cities, I've seen clubs where 80% of patrons are single, reasonably attractive females in their 20's.

Even in the worst dating markets for men like SF, if you do your homework, you can still find huge social circles which can be close to a dating paradise if you are relatively attractive.

It is absolute chaos in just about every big city in the US, to the point that even generalizing about SF/Silicon Valley can be tough because there are so many niches and social circles.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A place such as NYC is the perfect shytstorm. Lockdown after lockdown, crime waves spiking past the 1980's/early 90's, people leaving the city FOR GOOD in the past year alone and numerous men now picking up what the so called 'manosphere' has been putting down for the last three+ years. I hope they stocked up on kitty litter and flak jackets.
 

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I am from Central Jersey and you are right, the amount of fit attractive women in NYC is insane that your neck starts to hurt from turning it so much. I think I have read multiple times that New York City has a lot more single women than men.

Places like Denver are the opposite that they call it "Menver"

Another good spot if you don't want to go into Manhattan is Hoboken. City like feel with gorgeous fit women everywhere you turn.
I can vouch for this. In Metro NYC i have triple digit lays from an hour outside of Manhattan. The sheer volume of women is crazy
 

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So i entered a separation after my marriage of 8 years and started hanging out a lot. (So far i haven't slept with anyone by my wife - sex was never a problem - we still have it 2x/week). Yesterday, Saturday, my buddy and me ended up on Lower East Side and were surrounded by HORDES of attractive women. We felt like we are in some weird sci-fi film where most men went extinct. Groups of 3 or 5 attractive women standing around aimlessly looking for the next thing to do.

On our short walk to my friends speakeasy club we were smiled on twice and waved on once.

I brought it up to my friend who is general manager at this speakeasy bar/dance club and she mentioned that night-after-night they have 80% women and only 20% men in there.

Gentlemen, drop the silly dating apps and just go out!

It all felt like this scene from the Monty Python:
I don't spend a lot of time watching Tele but there is a short 4 episode show call Mixology that I found very interesting as far as intergender dynamics.

OLD to me just smells like unskilled, unconfident, and scarcity mentality. Sure, you will find women to get laid but I mean give yourself a little challenge and interact like a normal human being. It will make you a better man and person.

PS: I'm originally from NYC and yes, plenty of fish in the sea there.

Solid post.

Modern Man Advice
 

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So i entered a separation after my marriage of 8 years and started hanging out a lot. (So far i haven't slept with anyone by my wife - sex was never a problem - we still have it 2x/week). Yesterday, Saturday, my buddy and me ended up on Lower East Side and were surrounded by HORDES of attractive women. We felt like we are in some weird sci-fi film where most men went extinct. Groups of 3 or 5 attractive women standing around aimlessly looking for the next thing to do.

On our short walk to my friends speakeasy club we were smiled on twice and waved on once.

I brought it up to my friend who is general manager at this speakeasy bar/dance club and she mentioned that night-after-night they have 80% women and only 20% men in there.

Gentlemen, drop the silly dating apps and just go out!

It all felt like this scene from the Monty Python:
What is it that you're trying to sell? I'm all for going out and minimizing addiction to social media.

Are you trying to sell us on NYC?

The city with closets I mean studios, renting for $5K a month?

Is it yankee stadium where you need to show proof of multiple fake vaxx shots just to watch Dominicans slap at a baseball?

Is it mandatory masks everywhere including outdoors at Central Park?

Is it your governor's nipple rings?

Is it the endless crime waves and zero enforcement policy of NYPD?

There are women everywhere--why live in a complete sh-thole of a city called NYC?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So i entered a separation after my marriage of 8 years and started hanging out a lot. (So far i haven't slept with anyone by my wife - sex was never a problem - we still have it 2x/week). Yesterday, Saturday, my buddy and me ended up on Lower East Side and were surrounded by HORDES of attractive women. We felt like we are in some weird sci-fi film where most men went extinct. Groups of 3 or 5 attractive women standing around aimlessly looking for the next thing to do.

On our short walk to my friends speakeasy club we were smiled on twice and waved on once.

I brought it up to my friend who is general manager at this speakeasy bar/dance club and she mentioned that night-after-night they have 80% women and only 20% men in there.

Gentlemen, drop the silly dating apps and just go out!

It all felt like this scene from the Monty Python:
Which bar was this? I need to go
I was at a bar yesterday and there were a group of 5 women just hunting for dyck
Granted they were at the wall (30+ wringles in the face, decent bodies but you can tell "they've had it)
One chick was one who I messed with in 2012/2013 and she told me she was in a relationship but needed some dyck (it was 6 weeks since she and her boytoy hooked up)

I didn't bite but needless to say the Demic has lot of "thirsty" women on the prowl especially those 30+ in my area
 
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