New Years

[Nn877]

I'm pretty much beyond confused at this point I don't know what to think and should I just say **** it.

Nye me and my gf planned to stay in and keep it chill. So I show up and immediately notice she's in a bad mood...so I try to cheer her up to no avail and it starts to put me in a bad mood. I brought champagne as well. Around 10:15 she says she's not in a good mood and wants to go to sleep...I'm like thinkin wtf. So I stay on the couch for a little bit watching tv for like 15 mins trying to figure out wtf is happening.

She comes out and says her nephew can't sleep w tv on. He's 5 and was staying the night with us. I'm like ok do you want me to leave? And she says she's going to bed I'm like eff it at this point and say ok I'm leaving so I go and grab my champagne that I brought and she gets hella pissy basically slams door on me. Then texts me that I'm acting hella gay and throws my clothes out as well.

Now she blocked me on ig and my calls...WTF?! I am wrong for taking my champagne or not trying harder to change her mood. I was acting very aloof because she was and I didn't understand why she was just siting there bad ass mood on nye. She did say lets drink at one point and I ask did she put champagne in the fridge to chill she says no you brought it, and that was that.

I'm fed up with her like after blocking me I don't even wanna reconcile if she decides to reach out. I'm literally blown away of her immaturity.

 

[GS750]

I see some immaturity on her part and possibly her trying to instigate something here.

I'm pretty much beyond confused at this point I don't know what to think and should I just say **** it.

Nye me and my gf planned to stay in and keep it chill. So I show up and immediately notice she's in a bad mood...so I try to cheer her up to no avail and it starts to put me in a bad mood. Bad vibes? Should've just leftI brought champagne as well. ...and taken it with youAround 10:15 she says she's not in a good mood and wants to go to sleep...I'm like thinkin wtf. Again...should've just exitedSo I stay on the couch for a little bit watching tv for like 15 mins trying to figure out wtf is happening.She's either feeling sh*tty or trying to instigate something

She comes out and says her nephew can't sleep w tv on. Still there? Here's your cue to just leaveHe's 5 and was staying the night with us. I'm like ok do you want me to leave? And she says she's going to bed I'm like eff it at this point and say ok I'm leaving so I go and grab my champagne that I brought and she gets hella pissy basically slams door on me. Disrespect. Not to mention childishThen texts me that I'm acting hella gay and throws my clothes out as well. She's acting like a pain in the a$$ and you stuck around for more abuse.

Now she blocked me on ig and my calls...WTF?! Block her backI am wrong for taking my champagne or not trying harder to change her mood. Nope. Why try and change her mood? I was acting very aloof because she was and I didn't understand why she was just siting there bad ass mood on nye. Who knows. Sounds like she's trying to stir up some dramaShe did say lets drink at one point and I ask did she put champagne in the fridge to chill she says no you brought it, and that was that.

I'm fed up with her like after blocking me I don't even wanna reconcile if she decides to reach out. Sensing an impending breakup? Go ghost for a few days and see if she reaches out. I'm literally blown away of her immaturity.

Girls pull this crap to test you. Or if they are trying to instigate something. Was your relationship having problems before NYE?

 

[Nn877]

We had a mini breakup/fight like 2 weeks ago but recently sorted through it. After I basically told her I'm tired of her acting hella childish and drama so I walked. She texted me two days later that she loves me wants to sort thru it, etc.

And then this happens last night. She's never blocked my calls before, I can't figure out what pissed her off so much.

 

[GS750]

Hate to say it, but it sounds like your relationship is about to end. She's up to something. You may want to consider pulling the plug.

 

[zorg198]

When a woman starts sh1t like this is never a good sign. as other said here, she's up to something. figure out an escape plan before she dumpes you.

Joe.

 

[Nn877]

Well as of right now I pretty much consider her actions as a childish breakup, basically she can't even tell me it's over (she's 28 btw) but proceeds to block every social media outlet and my calls.

 

[blind_one]

Block her back, eject and never look back.

 

[salinechow]

You are "hella" toast bro.

Celebrate with plate!(s)

 

[Nn877]

Bump

 

[VladPatton]

Consider it the best New Year's Day present ever. Start the year off crazy-free! Dump her, she's done with this relationship and is picking fights to dump you.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Now she blocked me on ig and my calls...WTF?! I am wrong for taking my champagne or not trying harder to change her mood.

When a woman is acting weird for no apparent reason it is never your fault. Remember this for the rest of your life. If you screw up, you will know - or she will tell you.

 

[Nn877]

Agreed. Just expected somewhat more maturity. Not just blocking and cowardly going nc

 

[Moroder]

Just expected somewhat more maturity.

You're a good man, you've got your standards. Find a female who complies with them.