"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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New Year's Resolutions

CableLight

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Blech, studying is over-rated. Unless you've got a class that consistently wants you to hand in homework, don't bother. Study for tests and you'll be fine. Hell, this last semester I used $300 worth of books a grand total of two times. Notes do the dirty work.

As I-am said, get smarter. Watch the Discovery Channel sometimes; read a newspaper. You might be surprised (or at least I was) about how many things you can read about in the news or in historic news will be taught in a class. There's no better feeling than sitting in a classroom, have the instructor say "Today we're going to cover ... " and remember having read/watched something about the topic beforehand. It's like being steps upon steps ahead of what you should know.

Uhm...Knowledge is power...? 'Kay.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Juggalo

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Some of mine:

1. Lose my gut and gain some muscle.
2. Make new friends. (Guys and Girls)
3. Get A Job
4. Get A Car (I have my license :( )
5. Become more laid back

I'm sure I'll think of some more, but those are all I can think of at the moment.
 

lbfan1638

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My Resolutions

1. Get a six-pack
2. Meet more people
3. Get more chicks
4. Keep my 4.0 gpa
5. Stop procrastinating
6. Find a job
7. Live for the moment
 

i am me

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1. Lift weights 2/3 times a week
2. Get a 4.0 GPA (when the 2nd semester starts...I think my 1st semester grades can't change much...)
3. Flirt with some hot girls
4. Get a hot girlfriend
5. Just stay happy as much as I can
 

The Monkey

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1. Read worthless tech articles way less
2. Find things to do other than surf the internet
3. Read my Bible more diligently
4. Learn to play the Guitar
5. Get my web development business up and running
6. Stay busy doing important things, instead of wasting a lot of time

- Monkey
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sosofresh

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I plan to

1. Go to church more often
2. Instead of giving 75% in school, give 150%
3. Become a monster in baseball
4. Getting permit (at least) and license
5. Reading more
6. Pick up my old hobby of drawing
7. Moving up from just smiling and saying hi to girl to talking to
them and getting numbers.
8. Overall, become a better, constantly improving MAN
 

I-am-someone

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So, almost a month has gone by... how are you guys doing with your goals?

Personally, I've had other things on my mind, but I'm pretty much still on schedule so far. Can't help but wonder how you guys are doing ;)
 

CableLight

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Still goin' strong :)
 

October

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Actually, going pretty well. Trying to meet a lot of people is tough, though. But it feels real good to accomplish something I said that I would accomplish. How about everyone else?
 

Void

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i need to make some resolutions

I never made any resolutions so I'm making them up as I type.

1: Stay on track of the dreams I'm trying to achieve: Play guitar as a profession, make my own company and more
2: Play guitar more
3: Get back into dating and all that...I've been out of it for awhile...
4: Do a lot better in school...as in i need to get...straight b's haha
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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