"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
New Years Resolution... I will revamp my self completely.
- Thread starter jdawgmcb
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I have been doing excellent in building rapport with the girls and getting them to go out with me.
The only problem is that I am having trouble PHYSICALLY escalating now.
I have no problem calling/talking to girls, i just have a problem making the physical move and connection.
Does anyone have any advice?
I have been able to number close a lot of girls, around 40, however, i usually just get "LJBF'd" and I think it's time to re contemplate my outlook on the PUA community, its time to study the mystery method and DJ bible biblically and learn it as a second language.
The drought will be over soon, i sure hope so.
I don't use mystery method verbatim, but I too am re-reading The Game for some motivation, and to polish up on some social etiquette for the field. I find every time you do that, you get a bit more upbeat and can take your game to that next level.
Its summer, enjoy it.
Get pimpin'! (copyright saucehead : Bodybuilding forums)
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.