Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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New years eve

mustfirstregister

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Hey it's the last day of the year.

What are u guys planning besides reading sosuave.net.

Im meeting a couple of friends and heading to do the countdown.

Tell me your story.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I just have some words of encouragement for those going out tonight.


Do you remember any of the girls that have rejected you in the past? Not really, right? Do you think she remembers you? Nope. Do her friends remember you? Nope. Do you know what you will remember?

You will remember the moment you made something out of nothing. Where you created the opportunity to get your d!ck sucked. You think a girl is going to magically fall on your pants and start sucking you off? No. Sh!t doesn't happen. IT IS NEW YEARS EVE. THAT'S YOUR EXCUSE TO BE AS AGGRESSIVE AS YOU CAN BE. SHOVE YOUR TONGUE DOWN HER THROAT. IF SHE DOESN'T LIKE IT, SHOVE IT DOWN SOMEONE ELSE'S THROAT. YOU ARE NOT GOING HOME ALONE TONIGHT, GENTLEMEN. WHETHER THIS YEAR WAS FVCKED UP OR AWESOME FOR YOU, END IT WITH A BANG. SET PRECEDENCE FOR 2014.

YOU ARE EITHER THE FVCKER OR THE FVCKEE. DON'T BE A PVSSY.
 

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Sitting my @$$ at home watching football. Cops around here whackoff all year to the thought of NYE and setting up roadblocks. I can understand keeping people safe and all, but they honestly look forward to this night. Yeah, they won't be catching me out. I've got plenty of booze in my house to tide me over.
 

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The girl I'm dating is in a small town visiting her family. I left her hanging by not telling her what I'm doing tonight. She's gonna spend New Years with her brain :D

I'm going out to my favorite hang out, gonna sing some karaoke, show off my mad vocal skills, get the ladies on the dance floor, and flirt like hell. I'm also not drinking tonight, so I'm free to take someone home if the opportunity arises.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Desdinova said:
The girl I'm dating is in a small town visiting her family. I left her hanging by not telling her what I'm doing tonight. She's gonna spend New Years with her brain :D

I'm going out to my favorite hang out, gonna sing some karaoke, show off my mad vocal skills, get the ladies on the dance floor, and flirt like hell. I'm also not drinking tonight, so I'm free to take someone home if the opportunity arises.
Desdi, is it alright if I call you Desdi? Will you be my wing man? Your first paragraph cracked me up!I
 

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Not a damn thing. It's cold, I'm lazy and I don't drink.
 

Starfvcks 64

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Interesting night for me.
I didn't get laid, I didn't even meet any new girls.

I felt strongly disconnected to my circle of friends, and have for a while now.
People change. I decide to "lone wolf" it and ditch them since all they were doing was playing fvcking video games.

I drive to a party part of town, because i've never pulled a girl at a club and want to try. I don't go to clubs, so it makes sense i've never pulled a girl at one, but still...
It's definitely a lot different than getting a girl during day to day activities, or at parties.

Some bltch actually said, "That isn't how this works," when I tried making conversation with her.

Ok then.
 

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Starfvcks 64 said:
Interesting night for me.
I didn't get laid, I didn't even meet any new girls.

I felt strongly disconnected to my circle of friends, and have for a while now.
People change.

I drive to the party area, because i've never pulled a girl at a club and want to try. I don't go to clubs, so it makes sense i've never pulled a girl at one, but still...
It's definitely a lot different than getting a girl during day to day activities, or at parties.

Some bltch actually said, "That isn't how this works," when I tried making conversation with her.

Ok then.
Lmfao you decide how it works
 

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It was an unusually mellow night, but that's probably because it was freezing cold out. Lots of my friends didn't come out, but I had fun with the few that did. The pickings for women were terrible, as many of the women were trying to bust the stools with their weight.

Caught sight of one woman. Fairly average with a half-decent face. She was sitting with some guy who was obviously not her companion. So I just walked over and started a brief convo. I kept passing by her all night making little comments about random things.

Sometime after midnight, I strolled by her spot and ended up chatting with her for quite a bit. I went and sat beside her, and we discovered some things in common. She initiated light accidental kino which told me she was interested. After she excused herself briefly, a girl at the table of fat chicks next to us called me over. "You like her, don't you?" I said, "Oh? Who wants to know?" She said "I noticed something going on between you two!" Eventually, I discovered that the whole fat chick table were my cheerleaders. I must have been the main topic during the night.

Anyway, I used a number close that I've never used before. I just simply said "I should get your number." No asking, just assumed that the transaction was going to take place, and it did. While I was punching in her number, one of the fat cheerleaders was giving me the "right on" gesture.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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