"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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New year eve plans

sinner

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Hey everyone, just wanted to know what you guys have planned for this 31st . I'll start off. Me & my friends are having this killer party at my friend's farm house with lots of alcohol, weed and hot chicks!! Share your plans people.... :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Patrick124

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depends. i just got grounded today, but i think i'm going out new years either way.

my boy is having a 50-70 person party at his house, lots of alcohol. its gonan be liek 2:1 girl to guy ratio, cause we're inviting so many chicks.
its gonna be good.

if not that, "Playboy mansion" themed party at my hookup-buddy[soon to be FB]s house...and apparently if i go there, I can sleep there. so ye.

or, which i most likely wont be doing but it was offered, going to some college with my buddy n his older brother n some of his frineds that i know[they buy me booze ha]

basicly...one wya or another, I'm gonna be su plastered by like 11 that night..its gonna be good.
 

Taviii

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I am gonna go on a near mountain with some friends and collegues from 31 to 2 january, some 35 people from which at least 10 girls are single. Lots of beer and vodka are gonna be there. Oh and something important, my gf wont be there :D so I can work my skillz on some other girls.
 
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