"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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New Workout Plan

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The plan is to go Wednesday, Friday, Sunday.
Goal: Core body workout in quickest possible way. (Aim for no more than 2 hours per session)

The below is excluding warmup sets
(Reps x sets)

Day 1:
Squat 6x4
Clean & Jerk 1x8
Calve raises 6x4

Day 2:
Bench variations 6x4
Weighted Pullups or Wide Grip Pullups 6x4
Snatch 1x8 or OverHead Squat 5x4

Day 3:
Deadlift 5x3
Push Press 6x3
Hanging Leg-Hip Raise 6x3

and repeat each week.

How does it look?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Where did you get this from? I don't like it at all. No offense.

What are you doing for your arms? I see almost nothing there for your biceps and triceps beyond their use of stabilizer muscles. Very little for traps and delts too (shoulder girdle), nothing that's isolating them, anyway.

I never liked the clean and jerk. More of a power lifter thing, and always seemed like a good way to get hurt when throwing heavy weight around.

Honestly, $5 body building magazines are littered with work out plans on the month. I'd do that, or go get a body building book from a book store. For $25, you can get one of those Encyclopedia of Body Building books that will provide you with more well-thought out routines than you'd ever want to do (and realistically, you could find them online for free).
 

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MotownMack said:
Honestly, $5 body building magazines are littered with work out plans on the month. I'd do that, or go get a body building book from a book store. For $25, you can get one of those Encyclopedia of Body Building books that will provide you with more well-thought out routines than you'd ever want to do (and realistically, you could find them online for free).
Right...
 

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Why not just do a two day? In the gym less than an hour and a half each session, plenty of recovery time...
 

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I tend to take longish rests between sets lol.. Bench and Deadlift together take close to 1 hour for me to complete. (Including warmup sets.) I am pulling quite a bit..

I've centered my workout around the big 3 for almost 2 years now. Then I learned the Oly lifts (heaps of fun too) and want to in corporate them into my routine. Back then my requirement is that I do not deadlift on the same day as squats. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134301

The Hanging Leg-Hip Raise was recently added because the deadlift has strengthened my back relative to my abs.. it's a rebalancing act.

However, I find the C&J very taxing as I'm basically doing max pulls on each rep. (if i reduce the weights then I'd have to go back to those annoying 10kg small plates lol).

P.S. More than happy to cut the calve raises out all together.

@MotownMack: I have never done a single set of bicep curl in the gym in my life. Huge guns is not a priority to me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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or maybe..

Day 1:
Squat 6x4 or OH Squat
Clean & Jerk 1x8
Hanging Leg-Hip Raise 8x3
Push Press 6x3

Day 2:
Bench variations 6x4
Deadlift 5x3
Weighted Pullups or Wide Grip Pullups 6x4
Snatch 1x8

Have tried doing C&J on the same day as Push Presses, couldn't complete all the sets though.

Is this shoulder work even neccessary if I do the C&J? or should it be replaced with trap work like shrugs instead?
 
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I read the goal but it not really specific, whats your goal in terms of training, what are you trying to accomplish?
 

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In terms of training, basically hit every body part, so i dont get muscle imbalance.

In terms of trying to get somewhere for this, i want to compete for a weightlifting/powerlifting event somewhere down the road.
 

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MotownMack said:
Where did you get this from? I don't like it at all. No offense.

What are you doing for your arms? I see almost nothing there for your biceps and triceps beyond their use of stabilizer muscles. Very little for traps and delts too (shoulder girdle), nothing that's isolating them, anyway.

I never liked the clean and jerk. More of a power lifter thing, and always seemed like a good way to get hurt when throwing heavy weight around.

Honestly, $5 body building magazines are littered with work out plans on the month. I'd do that, or go get a body building book from a book store. For $25, you can get one of those Encyclopedia of Body Building books that will provide you with more well-thought out routines than you'd ever want to do (and realistically, you could find them online for free).
nothing wrong with it imo, just needs a military press.

weighted pullups & deadlifts>>>>>>>****ty bicep curls

And no need to buy mags & books, he just needs to head over to Iron Addict Forums, muscletalk, t-nation they have a ****lo of proven routines over there.
 

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Hmm well if you wanna do powerlifting one day, have you looked int westside barbell routines? Really good for getting strength up :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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shaunuk said:
Hmm well if you wanna do powerlifting one day, have you looked int westside barbell routines? Really good for getting strength up :)
Yeah i agree, westside would be a far better option for your goal
 

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MotownMack said:
Where did you get this from? I don't like it at all. No offense.

What are you doing for your arms? I see almost nothing there for your biceps and triceps beyond their use of stabilizer muscles. Very little for traps and delts too (shoulder girdle), nothing that's isolating them, anyway.

I never liked the clean and jerk. More of a power lifter thing, and always seemed like a good way to get hurt when throwing heavy weight around.

Honestly, $5 body building magazines are littered with work out plans on the month. I'd do that, or go get a body building book from a book store. For $25, you can get one of those Encyclopedia of Body Building books that will provide you with more well-thought out routines than you'd ever want to do (and realistically, you could find them online for free).

btw if he would get a book i recommend starting strength, i think its on amazon

quality book
 

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Westside would probably be a great place to start like Shaun and Effort have said.

Type westside barbell into google and try elite fts for info on it. Ironaddicts.com has some info on it as well.
 

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Hey guys, thanks for the input.

Where's the WSB routines? is it under articles?
 

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Flyer said:
Hey guys, thanks for the input.

Where's the WSB routines? is it under articles?
theres a whole forum about it on ironaddicts.com
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Quagmire911 said:
Westside would probably be a great place to start like Shaun and Effort have said.

Type westside barbell into google and try elite fts for info on it. Ironaddicts.com has some info on it as well.
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