"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Egyptiandude1

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This is a technique I saw a buddy of mine try on a girl, he had spoken to her before and this was their second encounter, they were talking for a bit, then in front of everybody, even her friends, he just says "you know something, I like you, you're pretty awesome lets go out sometime" for a second I felt embarassed for him but she really warmed up to him and he got her #, now I wasnt sure if this was an exception, have any of you tried doing this before, just laying all the cards on the table confidently like that?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This works very well if you're genuine :) It's you're using it as a TACTIC, you'll fail. Gotta come from the heart.
 

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Girls give #s out like candy. You judge your success by the quality and occurance of a day 2. Obtaining a # really doesn't guarantee she was interested, only that she wasn't impolite.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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everywomanshero said:
Girls give #s out like candy. You judge your success by the quality and occurance of a day 2. Obtaining a # really doesn't guarantee she was interested, only that she wasn't impolite.
I think it is impolite to give out her number knowing that she is going to blow the guy off. I would rather here NO I don't like you UGLY GUY:cry:

Women shouldn't feel obligated to give out their number just because they are too coward or kind to let a guy know that he isn't her type.

OP/OT: that can and does work. One of my buddies did that on graduation day of HS and he ended up dating the girl for 2 years, but she dumped him because he was a loser:(
 

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Egyptiandude1 said:
This is a technique I saw a buddy of mine try on a girl, he had spoken to her before and this was their second encounter, they were talking for a bit, then in front of everybody, even her friends, he just says "you know something, I like you, you're pretty awesome lets go out sometime" for a second I felt embarassed for him but she really warmed up to him and he got her #, now I wasnt sure if this was an exception, have any of you tried doing this before, just laying all the cards on the table confidently like that?

hey this is effectively a WILKY, why i like you..invented by sheriff of mysterymethod UK, if any of you have ever read venusian handbook, and know the M£ model, this stratagy occurs in the A3 and C1 stages, it can also be used to get out of a neg loop...the jkey however isnt really in what you say but how you say it.

you wnat to be subcommunicating confidence and above all non-needyness when you give a girl a compliment, essentially saying...i like you, but i dont neeeeeed you.
 
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