New user! Im here to learn, obvoiusly! :)

[aztec300zx]

Hey I just wanted to introduce myself, im a 25 yr old AFC from the midwest. Heres my sitatuation........

I am a huge AFC, basically had intimate relations with one girl, a girl i was with for 2 years ...... up until 2001

After that basically Im like a lost puppy dog, trying to get my confidence up and everything, I've had basic things come my way, made out with a few girls, foreplay with a few others but nothing truley sexual.

I tend to goto the bars every weekend, I make good money and live on my own right now, which is a plus definetly, got a nice huge apartment with more than enough room to bring friends over.

Like I said I hit the bars every weekend, see girls I am interested in and my heart just sinks, every day during the week I am on here reading the forum thinking about what I am going to try first and so on but once the weekend comes I always clam up and do nothing! Things will change hopefully soon, I need to get laid already!

I am an extremely humorous guy, but just shy as hell at first. Typically my whole situation of shooting for a girl goes for beating around the bush until the very last minute to get shy and in a chumpy voice tell her we should hang out, which obviously never works.

I just can not get myself to actually pursue someone, and that blows

Just figured I would introduce myself, I've been reading absolutely everything on the forums this week and I am hoping for some changes this weekend! Wish me luck!

 

[aztec300zx]

Btw- im not really an "ugly" person or anything by any means, I would probably rate myself as 7-8ish? Kinda small build is the thing that i hate though

 

[DJinT]

Tell girls how much money you have. They will flock to you.

Thank me later.

 

[\O/]

Welcome to the board!

Instead of reading this forum you should read through the bible first. There's a link in the right upper corner. It's a collection of the best articles! It's huge, but awesome.

Also check out bristollair.com
It has alot of good stuff. Collected articles from the best guys..style, mystery, david d, gunwitch, juggler, swinggcat etc.

Good luck!

 

[aztec300zx]

thanks guys, reading the bible was my absolute first venture, about the money thing..... I sorta tried that last week going to the local hot college girl bar, tipped the waitresses VERY wealthy lets just say, but that doesnt do me any good unless I shoot for 'em

\o/ ----- going and checkin out that website right now, thanks bro!

 

[So pimp its scary]

Hey... welcome to the board.

I'm gonna do you one extra favor :

1 - Don't listen to people blindly... alot of people here don't know shyt about what they are talking about.

2 - The ONLY way to learn this skill is by field experience. (Field being a sales term for going out with intention of selling, or the area where you are selling... in this case, yourself.)

3 - The only rejections come from making a complete fool of yourself, and is quite rare.

4 - Most no's from a girl can be translated to a 'yes, but...' (Ie : No I have a bf = I'd say yes, but I have a bf) makes things feel alot less harsh.

5 - Feel the fear and do it anyways (If you want that pounded into your mind, read the book by that title)

6 - Read ALOT of new books... psychology, NLP, refphraming books, body language (the good ones in this area are rare), self-help (search for specific titles),

7 - Take a good look at yourself before you end up looking for yourself in others.

8 - Keep fit.

9 - Sex = Seclusion + Eye Contact + (sexual) Xcitement

10 - Grab your balls and approach! Approaching bad still gives you better odds than not approaching at all.

11 - It's not about the girl, it's about the skill.

12 - You can say one phrase and have it mean hundreds of different things.

13 - 60% of what you say is said before you open your mouth. 95% of what you communicate is non-verbal.

14 - Life is not fair, and that's a good thing because it means I can turn things to my advantage.

15 - With the right attitude, personality and approach; looks, money, height, race, socail status, among other things, have no bearing on your level of success. Looks do matter, but only as a pass/fail thing... meaning, that if you are too fugly you gotta lower your standards a little or get ALOT more game.

 

[DJinT]

Load of mumbo jumbo.

 

[Shocker]

Originally posted by So pimp its scary
Hey... welcome to the board.

I'm gonna do you one extra favor :

1 - Don't listen to people blindly... alot of people here don't know shyt about what they are talking about.

2 - The ONLY way to learn this skill is by field experience. (Field being a sales term for going out with intention of selling, or the area where you are selling... in this case, yourself.)

3 - The only rejections come from making a complete fool of yourself, and is quite rare.

4 - Most no's from a girl can be translated to a 'yes, but...' (Ie : No I have a bf = I'd say yes, but I have a bf) makes things feel alot less harsh.

5 - Feel the fear and do it anyways (If you want that pounded into your mind, read the book by that title)

6 - Read ALOT of new books... psychology, NLP, refphraming books, body language (the good ones in this area are rare), self-help (search for specific titles),

7 - Take a good look at yourself before you end up looking for yourself in others.

8 - Keep fit.

9 - Sex = Seclusion + Eye Contact + (sexual) Xcitement

10 - Grab your balls and approach! Approaching bad still gives you better odds than not approaching at all.

11 - It's not about the girl, it's about the skill.

12 - You can say one phrase and have it mean hundreds of different things.

13 - 60% of what you say is said before you open your mouth. 95% of what you communicate is non-verbal.

14 - Life is not fair, and that's a good thing because it means I can turn things to my advantage.

15 - With the right attitude, personality and approach; looks, money, height, race, socail status, among other things, have no bearing on your level of success. Looks do matter,

Word!

 

[boulepiquante]

brian

aztec friend
stop dressing up as an aztec and you ll be fine

seriously read BRIAN S interview and you ll be a new man
clifflist.com/page2c.pl

and please give me some feedback on the iterview

 

[reyalp]

i/v is non existant, boulepiquant