New user ! Help me out please

[jiza101]

Hi fellas.
Im from aus, and a private school = all same uniform..
Anyway my current situation is im a friend with most guys in my year and kinda funny. However when im with my mates and girls im usually not the one cracking jokes, my mate is lol.
The HB's (Think they are) all hang in ONE group together, and only socialise with the "cool/dumbasses" guys. I want to know how i can basicly interact with these girls who think there top ****, considering i have a rep of kinda being quiet around girls, however after reading a lof of stuff on this site i have found that those "HB" are just dumb *****es
So yer, i got some HB in my class im wondering how i can approach them in class or hallways etc... Im currently looking to improve myself by working out and getting fit etc, but i find it hard to make friends with hot chicks, although im friends with heaps of girls around the 5 scale.
So yer i need a few ideas, which could make me stand out kind off in this group (we all wear same uniform). and me saying something funny infront of one of these hot dumb *****es would not sound homo, but instead funny.
So yer im looking to break into the group to be able to talk to these dumb sluts although some are hot others are butterfaces who think there hot
Anyway i just want good ***** :>, im 16 by the way..
And also what would u recomend about trying to pick up chicks in the year below considering i am supposed to be in that year i just skipped a year cause im smart. and no im not fugly :>.
So help a new user out !! thanks

 

[DJoneday]

You need this site, lol.

First off, while some HB's are bit*ches, that's not all of em. Before you go off trying to impress the hotties, first just make some basic social skills, get in the habit of talking to chicks, and getting numbers. Those hotties won't be thrilled by a single "magical" comment, but if you get some game and learn to incorperate the ideas on this site into your personality, then you'll have something that they will truly want.

Welcome

 

[jiza101]

haha true true,
ive read a lot of the bible and shiat and im getting into the grove of just talking to any girls
But its going to be weirder talking to ppl i have never talked to ye ?

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Don' try too hard to impress them or try to be the funny guy that you are not -you'll just come off as a fake. What are your strengths? Use your strengths to attract them and hold their attention. Are you an athlete. Are you intelligent? Do you have a quick wit?

The easiest way obviously is to get in with the guys that they talk to and see daily and then you will build 'social proof' and they will invite you to their gatherings.

Whatever you do don't force yourself to be accepted. This nonchalant indifferent attitude may just be what they like about you! Be confident with yourself to such an extent that the company of hos is not your priority but rather secondary to your overall physical, emotional, and mental improvement!

 

[jiza101]

thanks puerto
as for my strengths, i can be funny... umm im good at tennis :?
i have nice legs, the one thing girls compliment me on lol
umm ye :?
any other ideas ure was great puerto !

 

[Sax God]

Just make it a habit of talking to her (them) each day. Work your way in and show them what you have to bring to the party! Relax and have fun.

The "quiet guy" around girls is typically that way because he's nervous or uptight. The cure for this is to talk to ALL girls, not just the HBs. This will help you loosen up and relax.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Great, show off your legs and ask a hb you are a looking for a partner to play tennis with you - if she says she don't play, tell her you will give her free lessons. If she says she don't like tennis ask her what sports she likes and challenge her to a duel in that sport! Hopefully it's not playing solataire!

 

[jiza101]

ahah, good shiat.
LOL, house sports is on this week for tennis..
The thing is i havnt played in a while BUT, im still ok :>
And u play with a girl against the other houses.. I dont wont to go play some **** and another chick who are like freaks at it and then ger burnt ahaha..
whats the best attitude to take if we are playing a good pair, should i just **** around and have a laugh ??

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

purposely lose the game and then offer her a challenge match on her private time (without the partners).