New trend : going on 2/3 dates with a girl and then they hit you with a long period out of town

[Bigpapa]

Sending you pictures on the trip? after they come back to they message you? wanting to hang out? or are they quiet and seem disinterested when you reach out?

Only 1 came back so far, and she was warm and hinting to meet

so we went out for 2 dates, and then hits me again that she is going to visit her parents for 2 week ( she is from another country )

Before that she had a trip planned in another country

I was like wtf

on one hand she is warm, on another hand she creates a lot physical distance

so basically with this girl

2 dates in 2 weeks + 2 weeks of distance because she is traveling + 2 dates in 2 weeks + 2 weeks of distance

I also did not pass base 1 with her despite coming to my place for 2 times but always becoming anxious when coming to my place

which again puzzles me

 

[Solomon]

Only 1 came back so far, and she was warm and hinting to meet

so we went out for 2 dates, and then hits me again that she is going to visit her parents for 2 week ( she is from another country )

Before that she had a trip planned in another country

I was like wtf

on one hand she is warm, on another hand she creates a lot physical distance

so basically with this girl

2 dates in 2 weeks + 2 weeks of distance because she is traveling + 2 dates in 2 weeks + 2 weeks of distance

I also did not pass base 1 with her despite coming to my place for 2 times but always becoming anxious when coming to my place

which again puzzles me

This is odd, but women traveling a lot if they have the means, or from another country, is not unusual.

I would continue to game like you're doing but also spin other plates that have better logistics, i.e. time, physical closeness etc.
IMO I would match their energy and when they get back in town, and try to link up ASAP

 

[MatureDJ]

If somebody does honestly have a trip already planned and they go on a couple of dates or less with someone new, the wheels often fall off on the relationship because the “momentum” is broken.

It's OVER for LostMomentumCels.

 

[The Duke]

but they are warm that puzzles me

sending me pictures and stuff

They are fishing for attention. Standard stuff. The currency that gets traded is still the same. They get attention, and you get sex...hopefully. In the meantime, keep the pipeline primed and this stuff doesn't matter. It's put out or get shut out.

I'm going to say the veterans of this board don't have these problems. There's a reason and it probably has to do with you. Gotta make the vagina tingle.