"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Enjin 7

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College Bootcamp!!!!! @_@

whats up yall. i am new to this whole thing. i had no game in highschool. i went to college and there are tons of hot chicks here and i decided that i really need game. guys here are all the same and looking at them, i can tell i am better than them, but they still pull all the poontang. its frustrating.

i guess you could call me a RAFC right? ive looked around the site a little bit. seems cool. im about to start bootcamp with a friend of mine (you need a wingman right? :)).

anyway, i dont really consider myself a bad looking guy. i just have no game. im here to work on that and id be happy to get some good advice.

thats me. looking for airtight game. hopefully it wont be long :)

im also going to make this my boot camp journal if you still do that.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Week 1 Exercises:

Two separate outings, eye contact with strangers:

My wingman and I walked about half a mile this dusk to the cafeteria. We ran walked past about 20 girls. About half didnt look me in the eyes. The about 1/4 smiled and looked down. The others kept eye contact with me and smiled. I forced myself to keep eye contact and smile longer than them. :)

One girl was walking with her boyfriend. I asked my wingman, "even this girl?". he gave me the ok so i made eye contact with her. We both smiled and she looked down.

My friend told me that the guy gave me an evil look, but thats cool. Whatever. He looked like he would give me a ******* for $5 and a lollipop. This chick was cute.

I ran into a girl that I made eye contact with later at sonic. She recognized me and we talked. Theres some **** called facebook I apparently need to get on.

There were some girls that pulled into sonic while we were sitting down eating. They were cute. I wish I would have done something. I'm a *****. I need to cowboy the **** up.

We later went to walmart and just walked around. I wonder if some girls even notice when you look... or if they care. I guess if they dont, then they just arent interested or what?

That would be the first day. There are still a couple of good outings I can go out on, like football game and party this weekend.
 

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haha note to self:

after looking at all of those ***** censors, I wonder how much I cuss around women. Need to stop.
 

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there is really nothing else to do in this town. i have the free time, so why not :) it sounds fun. looks like it will force me to break down barriers ive set up. thats good.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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omfg bbq a college campus is a perfect place to practice all this stuff.

ok like me and my friend are walking around and you know we are doing that eye contact thing. its awesome.

so we are walking outside and this girl is sitting with her boyfriend. eye contact engage! so she totally eye ****s me!!! like i almost had an eyegasm it was so good. she looks back into my eyes and i smile and keep walking.

this is fun. girls respond soooooooo much to eye contact its ungodly.

one question I have is cute girls usually look at me, but hot girls usually look at my friend. what the dilly o? :)
 

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Originally posted by Enjin 7
omfg bbq a college campus is a perfect place to practice all this stuff.

ok like me and my friend are walking around and you know we are doing that eye contact thing. its awesome.

so we are walking outside and this girl is sitting with her boyfriend. eye contact engage! so she totally eye ****s me!!! like i almost had an eyegasm it was so good. she looks back into my eyes and i smile and keep walking.

this is fun. girls respond soooooooo much to eye contact its ungodly.

one question I have is cute girls usually look at me, but hot girls usually look at my friend. what the dilly o? :)
ur friend is hotter then you?
 
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