AmericanMuscle
Don Juan
new member, just joined. i'm 18, turning 19 soon, and i've only hooked up with one girl (for a couple seconds) in my life. i think im somewhat attractive, i'd like to think so, i work out a lot. i started college about 4 months ago, and its just not what people make it out to be. there seems to be a major shortage of any hot females, but more than that, i can't seem to be able to get with any of them in any way. pretty much all of my friends are hooking up with chicks left and right. i can't seem to get to that level. i can meet a girl, sometimes even at random, but thats where it stops. i'm gettin very, very frustrated. i go to clubs, but that always seems to be a bust.
do people actually pick up girls at clubs? it just seems impossible, i try, i have a couple drinks and i go for it, but so far, i've gotten turned down every single time. its mind numbing, really. i remain hopeful but at this point im starting to get worried, and just now i know that i'm not gonna have success everytime, but i mean, its been a while, and my friends are having success, and i'm just starting to worry. and i'm becoming massively frustrated. i've gotten rejected just with girls i meet on campus, many times. some girl gave me her number and was messaging me on facebook like call me and all this stuff, and you should come with me to some club, but it turns out she was just promoting for the club. some other girl didnt live on campus, and we met and she kept coming over between classes, and i thought she was interested but she led me on just to use my computer and printer, and it took me a couple times to figure it out.
people say that since i have the car that i have, i should be able to pick up chicks like no problem. is this a real thing? i have an 05 mustang GT that i payed for myself, chicks don't seem to care about cars though unless its like a bimmer or some **** like that.
i dunno what im doin here...........what i'm hoping to find, maybe a little advice, maybe something i'm doing wrong, anything really. there seems to be some magical wall that prevents anything from happening; everytime something always happens to **** it all up. its sickening and im pretty desperate.
do people actually pick up girls at clubs? it just seems impossible, i try, i have a couple drinks and i go for it, but so far, i've gotten turned down every single time. its mind numbing, really. i remain hopeful but at this point im starting to get worried, and just now i know that i'm not gonna have success everytime, but i mean, its been a while, and my friends are having success, and i'm just starting to worry. and i'm becoming massively frustrated. i've gotten rejected just with girls i meet on campus, many times. some girl gave me her number and was messaging me on facebook like call me and all this stuff, and you should come with me to some club, but it turns out she was just promoting for the club. some other girl didnt live on campus, and we met and she kept coming over between classes, and i thought she was interested but she led me on just to use my computer and printer, and it took me a couple times to figure it out.
people say that since i have the car that i have, i should be able to pick up chicks like no problem. is this a real thing? i have an 05 mustang GT that i payed for myself, chicks don't seem to care about cars though unless its like a bimmer or some **** like that.
i dunno what im doin here...........what i'm hoping to find, maybe a little advice, maybe something i'm doing wrong, anything really. there seems to be some magical wall that prevents anything from happening; everytime something always happens to **** it all up. its sickening and im pretty desperate.