Quick info,chick came into my job last Thursday,got her number. Now I know ALOT of this is against what we preach but if you know what are doing then you can pull off whatever, whenever. I call her Friday,she told me she has a boyfriend,but insisted we hang out. Did do much because I got a flat on the way there,so wer basically changed my tire,and cruised for a tiny bit. We'll she texted me and then got to talking on the phone(stil Friday). We were on the phone forever,I said "goodnight Im sleeping" and went to bed. Now she calls me,Saturday, at 7 the next morning just to wake me up,I have no clue what that was about. I called her later that night,Saturday, and let her know she was invited to come with me in the morning for donuts. I call her Sunday morning and she says "nope Im not going" and I say "Ok,fine" and hang up,10 minutes later she calls back asking when and where. Now when we meet and she knows I LOVE GIRLS WHO PLAY HARD TO GET(society puts them up on a pedastal for me to knock them down),so she stays in her car and talks to me from outside her car not allowing me to kino it up(once I do this its all over,I win). Now Monday comes around and she comes into my job with her boyfriend trying to tick me off,instead I dont care and act like its all cool(ticked her off). After she left she text me saying, "you frustrate me so much" and such. Now today,Tuesday, she offers for me to meet her at the mall,I had stuff to do so I tell her no. I tell her she has a choice to make,I dont say exactly what choice,she knows(boyfriend or me,the ultimate boyfriend). She says "I cant make a choice,cant you just wait" and I say "no,I dont have time,make a choice". Now she says "Ok fine you dont want to wait" and hangs up on me, I call back 5 minutes later and say, "You just lost the best thing to ever happen to you" and hang up. 15 minutes later she tries to call back,I dont answer,she tried from a blocked number,and I dont answer. Actually,no joke,she is calling as I type. How long do I play this waiting game?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
New to the waiting game.
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poohead
Senior Don Juan
she sounds like a sh*** person, i wouldn't get involved with her.
El MonoLoco
Master Don Juan
I'd avoid her until she's ready to be honest with you
Lol this is kinda cool situation in my opinion. Sometimes its fun to play these childish games but after 1 week it get old FAST.
At this point you should meet up with her somewhere iconic..someplace with a nice view. Just go in for the kiss right away make that **** happens son. No more phone games. JUst answer and tell her to meet you wherever in a half hour or whenever u decide and go for it.
If that doesnnt work then drop her cuz its not worth the time BROOOO
At this point you should meet up with her somewhere iconic..someplace with a nice view. Just go in for the kiss right away make that **** happens son. No more phone games. JUst answer and tell her to meet you wherever in a half hour or whenever u decide and go for it.
If that doesnnt work then drop her cuz its not worth the time BROOOO