"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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New to the Red Pill (thank you Rollo) - not sure where to start here

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Hi everyone.

I wasn't sure where to post this kind of "new member" post but the over 25 seems reasonable to me, I'm not sure if many of the younger posters care about this stuff over Game tips or applications.

I stumbled upon one of the Manosphere blogs (not sure which one) and from there went into Tomassi's Rational Male.

After reading a few of the Rational's posts I was captivated by the insights and the quality of the writing.

I am a scientist and some of these things I already knew from personal experience and having an open mind - a clear example for me was "Choreplay" which I tried a few times before concluding was bull**** with a fair degree of statistical certainty. I guess there it helped me that I am aware of "Skinner boxes" in many aspects of life.

I focused my free time and after several days I have read his "Best of Selection" (and some of the other posts linked from those), and culminated now by reading his first book - I pretty much skimmed through most of the book.

I was already thinking of joining the community so that I could contribute and discuss some aspects, but it was the afterword in the book that made me took the plunge and select this forum instead of e.g. the TRP reddit.

So Rollo if you see this, your writing did help me become more aware.

My thanks go primarily to Rollo but in this kind of pursuit, as he well knows, we stand on each other's shoulders. I hope I can contribute something myself.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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jgvisions

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Welcome aboard and enjoy the ride. Have you had a chance to read his second book; Preventative medicine?
 
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