New to the game...

[Annexe]

I'm reading The Game at the moment and was wondering what you would do when you've ticked all her IOI boxes and move for the kiss. The response to recieving a no seems a bit cold ("i didn't say you could, it just looked like there was somehting on your mind"). I don't want to read to deeply into what should be simple but what should you do following the rejection (just preparing for all eventualities)? Is it a walk away job or should you try again?

Thanks.

 

[Uro.Essence]

^BumP^
Those are some really good techniques, anybody else got more for K-Closing?

 

[Ace of Flames]

I really like Juggler's close. I could see myself doing that with a few choice girls right now...

 

[organizedconfusion]

dude..there are moments in an interaction when it becomes silent or when you are talking there is alot of 'special eye contact'..kinda look at her and smile.look at her face,her cheeks,her eyes,her lips-look up at her eyes and down to her lips again..do this a couple times.Notice her unconcious reactions (blushing,smiling,licking her lips OR looking away suddenly,blinking hard,tensing her jaw),without even saying a word you'll know exactly what's on her mind..and you'll feel what's right to do next...
why ask? or even 'play around' -if it feels right just do it for godsake,don't ruin the mood..if she's into it, she wants to kiss you..remember that and don't dissapoint her! But then again, don't ignore obvious cues of disinterest in that department..you'll just look stupid and like an overaggressive jerk..

 

[Annexe]

Thanks for the advice guys. I understand that her body language is important in knowing when to close but i find it easier going in with a plan (confidence thing more than thinking i'll be more successful). Shezz; that's some pretty sound advice- thanks alot.