"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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L0bsang

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Hey people,

I am a late bloomer and eager to make up for lost time (23). I had a family problem in highschool that resulted in a family member passing away, I chose to stay home with my family and play video games. I have been in one relationship recently that I ended real quickly as it did not work out. My short term goal is just to get comfortable talking to women...at least start taking action instead of being hesitant, shy. and quiet...I hope to break that soon! I am in college now and want to take advantage of all the opportunities that I did not see before. Anyway, I will most likely be asking for advice via this forum (It is more comfortable than talking to my other buddies). Going to have a good nights rest now and am looking forward to tommarow.

Have a good one

Lobsang
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nice to meet you. Remember to just keep trying, in my opinion just getting out there is a brilliant start.
 
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