new to the forum... need some advice

[hugesock]

hi all
great to see a forum like this exists
i need some help, i dont normally get stumped
this one is a tough one

i was smoking in my car one night when i msged a cute girl on pof
we hit it off right off the bat, we were talking on the phone in minutes
before i knew it, i was heading over to her place
when i got there, there was tons of sexual chemistry
it got hot and heavy really quick
the sex was intense
afterwards we cuddled in her bed
the morning wake up was akward
she had some errands to run, i tagged along
but i could tell she didnt want me around
i took a walk for abit and then after, went home

now heres the tricky part

i really want to see her again
ive tried to make plans by messaging her online when shes online
the first time i just asked if she wanted to see me again, she said yes
the second time she was already with friends
same as the third time

now i dont know what to do other then leave her alone

id like some input

why is she not chasing me down?
the sex was hot
she said she wants to see me again
she doesnt work so she cant be that busy

what gives?
and what should i do to get her attention?

im thinking of asking her out again in a day or two
im afraid im gonna crack though if she says no
and blurt out im into her alot

any advice? questions?

help...

oh yea
forgot to mention
we were both 420 when this happened

we both had some and shared

 

[Greasy Pig]

Withdraw your attention. Hanging out with her the morning after was a bad move.
A chick who invites you over after a few random messages is probably only keen for some no-strings-attached sexual release.
You served your purpose and are no longer required.

Just chill out, stop messaging her. She'll get in touch next time she wants to fvck. It's the perfect situation really.
No emotional bullsht to worry about, just be Mr Rent-a-c0ck and leave as soon as you blow your load.

And to be honest, I'd abandon all thoughts about seriously dating such an easy chick. Just use her for sex like she obviously wants to use you.

 

[hugesock]

thanks greasy pig

Withdraw your attention. Hanging out with her the morning after was a bad move.
A chick who invites you over after a few random messages is probably only keen for some no-strings-attached sexual release.
You served your purpose and are no longer required.

Just chill out, stop messaging her. She'll get in touch next time she wants to fvck. It's the perfect situation really.
No emotional bullsht to worry about, just be Mr Rent-a-c0ck and leave as soon as you blow your load.

And to be honest, I'd abandon all thoughts about seriously dating such an easy chick. Just use her for sex like she obviously wants to use you.

thanks for the response greasy pig

ive come to realize she may use guys for things
i would expect she would

and in that case, your response makes sense

its possible that she doesnt **** other guys and just enjoys the perks of dating and doesnt want to commit and lose all the perks

so i am going to wait
thats good advice

maybe she will call for sex

 

[VladPatton]

Definitely just wanted sex. That was a fast hook-up-bang-a-thon. Something tells me she did this before lol.
She wanted to get laid and is of the aggressive types. Let her be, and she might hit you up for sexy time again.
If this chick were your gf you'd be tasting many a man's penis when you kiss her in the morning.

 

[hugesock]

Definitely just wanted sex. That was a fast hook-up-bang-a-thon. Something tells me she did this before lol.
She wanted to get laid and is of the aggressive types. Let her be, and she might hit you up for sexy time again.
If this chick were your gf you'd be tasting many a man's penis when you kiss her in the morning.

you know, she made the comment i never do this
and suffice to say she was very flabber gasted fhe morning of
i tried to get at her more, and she swatted me away... ive had just pure sex girls and its all sex all the way till you leave, wasnt like that

 

[Sneevox]

thanks for the response greasy pig

ive come to realize she may use guys for things
i would expect she would


maybe she will call for sex

1. Most girls use guys for things if you let them.
2. She won't. You have to call, and you have to be confident.
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