"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hi guys. I have stumbled upon this site, and have just finished my first week of the 6 week reading guide of the bible. There is a lot of great info in there! Anyways I thought I would just introduce myself, some problems areas, and how I intend to improve in those areas. If you guys have any advice or tips for me, please post them!

I've just turned 20 last week, enrolled in my 3rd year at university. I'm a proud Canadian citizen, play guitar in a band and make digital music at home.

Some areas I have problems with are: I dont function too well in the bar atmosphere, or in class. When I go to house parties I feel much more comfortable talking to people. I find it hard to approach and talk to people in these settings, even more so in class for some reason, as its always dead silent in class, i dont really like to be the one to be loud and disrupt. I also get completely shy and complacent whenever someone I view as "alpha" comes into the scene. After reading the 6-week guide im beginning to see that its more a problem of my perception of myself than it is of these other guys being better than me in any way, so I'm trying to work that out as well.

Anyways, I look forward to posting on here and making a transformation out of my shy ways! :D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Use your MBV wall of sound - to get into their panties...i assume yr named after the seminal shoegaze band....?

welcome!
 
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