"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MyBloodyValentine

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Hi guys. I have stumbled upon this site, and have just finished my first week of the 6 week reading guide of the bible. There is a lot of great info in there! Anyways I thought I would just introduce myself, some problems areas, and how I intend to improve in those areas. If you guys have any advice or tips for me, please post them!

I've just turned 20 last week, enrolled in my 3rd year at university. I'm a proud Canadian citizen, play guitar in a band and make digital music at home.

Some areas I have problems with are: I dont function too well in the bar atmosphere, or in class. When I go to house parties I feel much more comfortable talking to people. I find it hard to approach and talk to people in these settings, even more so in class for some reason, as its always dead silent in class, i dont really like to be the one to be loud and disrupt. I also get completely shy and complacent whenever someone I view as "alpha" comes into the scene. After reading the 6-week guide im beginning to see that its more a problem of my perception of myself than it is of these other guys being better than me in any way, so I'm trying to work that out as well.

Anyways, I look forward to posting on here and making a transformation out of my shy ways! :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Use your MBV wall of sound - to get into their panties...i assume yr named after the seminal shoegaze band....?

welcome!
 
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