"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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New to the board..shocked and saddened by some of you

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HoneyLove said:
I am an exotic dancer so I work in an environment where the rules are switched and the man is the prey and women are the predator.
Never been into exotic dancers, but welcome to the board nonetheless. Hope you enjoy the attention.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Upside said:
Words: 213
(NOTE: The genie works best on texts of more than 500 words.)

Female Score: 251
Male Score: 440
The Gender Genie thinks the author of this passage is: male!



Words: 174
(NOTE: The genie works best on texts of more than 500 words.)

Female Score: 264
Male Score: 364
The Gender Genie thinks the author of this passage is: male!

http://bookblog.net/gender/genie.php

So yeah. Go away.
Gender genie is bull****, I tested it on things girls wrote and it guessed it as male.
 

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Nevermind..already too much crap in this thread.
 

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The flames on this thread make me embarassed to be associated with this community - men and women and everyone in between with it.

I hear the message of the OP, that most guys on here aren't getting it just right, however:

a bunch of us are just trying to learn something that didn't come naturally to us and that we weren't taught by parents/friends/etc... I don't see anything wrong with that.

HoneyLove it'll be interesting if you start answering peoples' problems like you offered to do instead of responding to flames with more flames. Seems like this thread started with combative comments and probably won't be changing tone any time soon.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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