new to online DJing

[soopafly4eva]

hey party people,

I'm a big fan of this forum and it has helped me to improve myself and my romantic life considerably.

I've started DJing some girls on the internet and it's quite a lot of fun. What I want to know is what is the furthest I can go with a chick online? I've heard about people getting webcams and stuff but although it may seem like a waste of time, what type of sexy stuff can I do on the net with my chickies?

thanks!

 

[Austin Allegro]

It's fairly easy to get chicks to have cyber sex, but ultimately, what's the point? Isn't it better in 'real life'?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

The net is great for meeting women but I wouldn't suggest going beyond finding, qualifying and setting up a face to face meeting. Anything beyond that will put you into the same basket as AFCs and unless you can differentiate yourself as DJ, you will end up bored and frustrated.

 

[soopafly4eva]

I agree with you but I still think it would be fun and seeing as the chicks I'm DJing online live too far away to meet in person, this is the best I have at this stage with them (I also have a couple of girls I'm banging off-line ). What exactly is cyber-sex?

 

[Austin Allegro]

Cyber sex is 'one handed typing' - ie going on IM and swapping explicit messages about what you are doing to the other person in your fantasy.

It's basically VERY sad AFC behaviour. You also are quite likely to be having steamy 'sex' not with a 19 year old HB9 but a 45 year old gay man!

Back in my AFC days I did this once or twice. The two women I met through an online dating service. They claimed they really liked it and had orgasmed while reading it, etc - but when we met up in real life, although they were both hot, there was absolutely no IL from them. I suspect to a lot of women cybersex has no relation to anything they would ever do in 'real life'.

Avoid it, you don't need a screen to seperate you from life. The only time it might be acceptable is if you were already in a relationship with someone, but even then, I'd say it's pretty lame.

 

[MickoZ]

Girl can joke around, but they might be very interested in you because what they read, they read it the way they want to read it ;-) And when you say something that they like, they will re-read it a lot and a lot, and therefore have a good opinion of you... what is wrong though... is that they will have also a high expectation of you (that does not mean they won't love you, but just they already sticked a personality to you, unless you have stay way too mysterious)

and too much high expectation in anything in life leads to get deception. (on the other hand low expectation can get someone to be surprised)

 

[MickoZ]

Also, AFC or not... sometime chat and even let our thoughts go out on this forum, but mostly live chat, because they force you to be thinking faster usually, might help you to develop your fast-thinking and some social skills... I sometime just go chat out anyone and see if I can get some IL... and I found that the day I just go do random chat, I will be more spontaneous (and interesting) IRL (in real life... )

And btw, why not make a new term: CyberDJ

I am sure some of you are already thinking, a DJ can't be cyber, and thought of some diss, go ahead ;-)