"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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new to all this

tylerr

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hey, im fairly new to all this 16 yrs old, and looking for some info

i dont have much problem, get kiss, or fkk closes but the chicks are always falling head over heels for me, and now im getting known as a real player/arsehole sht like that, and its pushing some girls closer, but then im getting cok blocked by the chicks that have fallen for me, what can i do to make the chick, that im not up for a relationship
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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War Against Betaism

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Just don't care. Do what you do and continue being yourself. Where you'll lose is when you let those lies and rumours get to you because then you'll start acting out of character, thus you're not being yourself.
 

tylerr

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aah alright, sounds good thats what i have been doing, since the chicks that are getting pushed closer to me are the good looking/popular yr 12's from same school, i ussualy tend to go for people out side of school
 

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I was going to try to help you, but I couldn't understand a damn word you said. Pay as much attention in english as you do to women...that would help...:down:
 
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