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[thecatch]

Gentlemen,

have had this concern quite a bit today. Immersing in this material raises only one red flag. That is, if you begin attracting more girls than you were ever accustomed to, do you ever run into some crazy jealous jackass that doesnt know his head from a hole in the ground wanting to kick your A&@? I'm talking about meeting girls who are available, not breaking up someone's life either.

I only ask this because I have no training in martial arts, wrestling, fighting, etc... well only a little. I'm no wuss, dont get me wrong. I honestly am not up for fighting because this stuff works with the mind as much as anything else. New body language, skills, etc... can be scary to take in all at once before seeing the whole picture.

Anyway, none of the material I have come accross addresses this, so my assumption is its not an issue. Nevertheless, acting more manly means you back it up to most guys. Talk to me.

 

[Hamno]

As long as I'v known when to back off after a girl has shown that she isnt interested in anything other than the standard 'not really shopping around to replace the boyfriend, just seeing whats out there' type behaviour I havnt run into problems.

Your concerns are valid, but its not like this stuff all comes at once....although the general rule of 'dont hook up with girls who obviously have boyfriends' does keep one out of trouble(and yes, there are plenty of girls who dont have boyfriends are are terribly worried about that fact)

Hamno(who comes from one of those cities where you should really learn to handle yourself, it helps the mind more than the body)

 

[hithard]

some crazy jealous jackass that doesnt know his head from a hole in the ground wanting to kick your A&@?

Are you talking about in general or in the pub club scene

 

[ER!C L!VE]

I haven't encountered it and I've been playing for a while. I tend to find the ho's out there who have wussy bf's or no bf's.

I also have a concealed weapon permit, so I sometimes carry my Kel-Tec .40 hand gun (really friggin small handgun with a big hollowpoint slug)

http://www.securityarms.com/20010315/galleryfiles/1800/1887.htm

I let girl's know that I carry a gun, so I'm sure the second a jealous guy says to his girl, "I'm going to kick ER!C L!VE's ass when I see him!" She replies with "Umm he carries a gun". :cheer:

 

[IronFar]

Originally posted by ER!C L!VE

I also have a concealed weapon permit,

:woo: Concealed weap permits rock. :woo:

 

[ER!C L!VE]

Re: a gun?

Originally posted by Sanctum1972
don't 'flash' the permit or the gun because you can get killed or arrested for doing that.

I play by the rules of my State.

Getting back on topic of the jealous bf's - my buddies are all players and I've only heard one guy talk about another jealous bf (and nothing ever happened). I think the whole jealous bf thing is an issue is more prominent when you're dealing with the dregs of society or in high school.

 

[thecatch]

ok

gentlemen,

thanks for the opinions. As your not ladies, I will speak logically and directly. I have always had the opinion that violence attracts violence, and is really not the ultimate weapon anyway.

It may be my upbringing or place in life, whatever. Im new to this material so got a little scared. If your buddies are players and only ever encountered one jealous BF then thats fine with me.

No guns for me or knives. If someone wants to kill me, he is throwing his own life away as well as mine. I think if you base your decisions on confidence rather than fear it comes accross anyway. Keep in mind a violent man is not the alpha male because he has lost control, not maintained it.

If a problem came up I would use confidence and voice long before any fists came up. You know what? I am not going to live myself in fear. If some crazed freak does me in, at least it was fun while it lasted and I already lived better than 99% of guys who live to be 100.

feedback

by the way, I am respectful of other guys, now sprinkled with a bit of ****iness. I have a feeling other guys would back me up if ever there was a problem.

 

[Lifeguard]

Catch,

I have a lot of experience in this area. Feel free to email me (no solicitation of services, I assure you) so I don't keep having to check back to this thread to see your replies.

~Lifeguard~

 

[JackPrescott]

Originally posted by thecatch
Gentlemen,

have had this concern quite a bit today. Immersing in this material raises only one red flag. That is, if you begin attracting more girls than you were ever accustomed to, do you ever run into some crazy jealous jackass that doesnt know his head from a hole in the ground wanting to kick your A&@? I'm talking about meeting girls who are available, not breaking up someone's life either.

I only ask this because I have no training in martial arts, wrestling, fighting, etc... well only a little. I'm no wuss, dont get me wrong. I honestly am not up for fighting because this stuff works with the mind as much as anything else. New body language, skills, etc... can be scary to take in all at once before seeing the whole picture.

Anyway, none of the material I have come accross addresses this, so my assumption is its not an issue. Nevertheless, acting more manly means you back it up to most guys. Talk to me.

I havent run into this problem yet, but I imagine it's only a matter of time. I dont like to fight. But if I am openly challenged by another male, in a one on one confrontation, he had better be willing to exchange blows until one of us falls. Because once I accept the challenge, all bets are off.

That much being said, last night I saw an interesting situation. A gang banger type guy was relaxing at the bar with his lady, a sexy young thing in a tight tank top, and she got hit on by ANOTHER WOMAN, and this guy treated her like he would have another guy who was hitting on her. Very interesting. I think that should serve as a warning to all lesbian/bi-sexual women out there, that if they want to play with fire, sometimes you get burned, and I dont know about you other DJs, but when I am out with my lady, I take that shiit serious, and MALE OR FEMALE, if you barge in on my territory, things can get ugly fast.