"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wondering what are some useful things to learn in life. Apart from your job, your day-to-day neccessities and social life. As I'm 21 now. I feel as if, theres so much to learn out there and would like to start early, anybody recommend something USEFUL?

What are some good LANGUAGES to learn. Spanish? German? or/ and French? As I like travelling/ Backpacking around Europe (Netherlands, Germany, France etc) and hope to travel around SOUTH AMERICA/ CARRIBEAN ISLES later on.

Or maybe even some SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY/ PSYCHOLOGY classes which can perhaps make you better with dealing w/ people in your curren job/ social life etc. Anything that can help you, grammar wise in typing. speaking and reading. I want to be a good story-teller oneday. As I hear its A MUST THING IN LIFE TO HAVE.

COOKING LESSONS? if you can cook already. You can spice up something abit different than the usual SPAGHETTI BOLOUGNE?

Just on those terms, nothing rocket science. Any LENGTHY suggestions will be appreciated, especially if you're undergoing anything now or have done. If there is a thread on this already, can I have the link as I can't find anything on it in the search engine - apart from some brilliant thread on "Things you wish you knew before you turned 25/30" - :cool:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wealth building skills
 
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Learn one thing and master it like me a play pool and am pretty good at it I also study martialarts.
 
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If I could learn 1 thing it would probably be cooking or martial arts. I would love to be able to cook fresh pasta and my other favorite foods. Not only is fresh food delicious/healthy and better than premade stuff but women love a man that can cook for them.

Martial arts is self explanatory. Be able to defend yourself if push come to shove.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HeyPachuco! said:
Or maybe even some SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY/ PSYCHOLOGY classes which can perhaps make you better with dealing w/ people in your current job/ social life etc.
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Read The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene.
 
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