"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Wondering what are some useful things to learn in life. Apart from your job, your day-to-day neccessities and social life. As I'm 21 now. I feel as if, theres so much to learn out there and would like to start early, anybody recommend something USEFUL?

What are some good LANGUAGES to learn. Spanish? German? or/ and French? As I like travelling/ Backpacking around Europe (Netherlands, Germany, France etc) and hope to travel around SOUTH AMERICA/ CARRIBEAN ISLES later on.

Or maybe even some SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY/ PSYCHOLOGY classes which can perhaps make you better with dealing w/ people in your curren job/ social life etc. Anything that can help you, grammar wise in typing. speaking and reading. I want to be a good story-teller oneday. As I hear its A MUST THING IN LIFE TO HAVE.

COOKING LESSONS? if you can cook already. You can spice up something abit different than the usual SPAGHETTI BOLOUGNE?

Just on those terms, nothing rocket science. Any LENGTHY suggestions will be appreciated, especially if you're undergoing anything now or have done. If there is a thread on this already, can I have the link as I can't find anything on it in the search engine - apart from some brilliant thread on "Things you wish you knew before you turned 25/30" - :cool:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Learn one thing and master it like me a play pool and am pretty good at it I also study martialarts.
 
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If I could learn 1 thing it would probably be cooking or martial arts. I would love to be able to cook fresh pasta and my other favorite foods. Not only is fresh food delicious/healthy and better than premade stuff but women love a man that can cook for them.

Martial arts is self explanatory. Be able to defend yourself if push come to shove.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HeyPachuco! said:
Or maybe even some SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY/ PSYCHOLOGY classes which can perhaps make you better with dealing w/ people in your current job/ social life etc.
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Read The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene.
 
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