"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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New theory of sexual selection: The beta male.

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DJ_in_making

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The two alpha males approach each other, trying to win over a fertile female to mate with. They both begin to slaughter each other in a bloody fight as the female observes from afar. When suddenly, the beta male-who knows he has no chance in the fight- sneaks behind the female and seduces her. The female chooses the beta, knowing with his unaggressive nature he would be around far longer to look after their offspring.....

The Beta male wins. Go beta!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This belongs in the Anything Else forum, for it makes no sense whatsoever in the grand scheme of the DJ/dating world.

Nursery rhymes were meant for young children, not for people looking to improve their dating life. Alphas fight and win, betas just mostly pick up what's left to pick up; it's the very difference between alphas and betas.

-Bill
 

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Wow dudes, take it easy on the wrath! I can under where DJ in the making is coming from, but he's only addressing one aspect of the whole game. C'mon, admit it, beta's get girls too. They dont' get them on the terms us alphas and wanna-be alphas would prefer though. I would guess that most betas in relationships simper along obediently and rarely present much challenge or excitement to their girl.

The thing is, there are women who don't want a challenge or excitement. For whatever reason, their upbringing has taught them to value stability and supplication on the part of their mate above all else.
 

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i agree and i have a add

bm goes in to crocidile hunter voice


AS the beta pumps away at the extremely sexy female the two alpha males turn at each other say to each otha "AYE that muthaFukka is gettin wit our CHICK!!" They then rush the beta male at full speed knocking him down (sure enough the little guy can't run Faaah...OH CRANKY!! they just ripped his **** off and sTrangled him with it!!! Oh What's This?? the two alpha males show signs of truce as they play paper scissors rock on hew get's the Vag and who's goin in anally!!! oh CRANKY!!! this is the CRAZY!!


:woo: ohh yea:woo:

Beta male losses:down:



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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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