LinkinParkROX
Don Juan
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- Jun 27, 2009
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Hey folks, I've been on this site a while, constantly learning the ways of the Don Juan. I've been getting laid left and right, scoring with all sorts of chicks. I've reached the stage where simple sex/hookups bore me; I seek a relationship. So far, I've applied Anti-Dump's machine to my life and I'm pretty sure I've found the girl of my dreams. High interest level, loads of kino, everything was perfect. As much of a sap as that makes me sound like, I do know the difference between puppy love/infatuation and real love; I'm pretty sure this is real. Anyhow, we just ended the best two weeks of our lives and now she's gone abroad to study.
She comes and goes every 6 months for 2 weeks, but besides that, she's doing a 3 year course, so this is a bit of a challenge. It's been 3 days since she left, and I can not stop thinking about her; it's driving me insane. I'm constantly checking facebook to see if she's online and stuff. I have this urge to go on facebook and send her a huge message about how much I love her and how much I can't stop thinking about her and all this AFC bull**** I've learned to avoid. What would you do in this situation?
What do you suggest I do? My DJ instincts tell me no contact, my possibly AFC instincts tell me otherwise. The thing is, I'm pretty sure this is the woman I'm meant to marry. I'm beyond casual lays, they're boring now. It's odd not talking to her and still hoping she maintains that high interest level, you know? She could just as easily lose interest now that she's abroad and go get with some foreign penis. That's besides the point. My dilemma right now is: 1) Take action, tell her I love her, talk to her every now and then, or 2) No contact, be a challenge, keep a big distance, and hope to maintain her high Interest Level.
I feel like all the Don Juan stuff I learnt has just been negated man, what the hell? Input, please?
She comes and goes every 6 months for 2 weeks, but besides that, she's doing a 3 year course, so this is a bit of a challenge. It's been 3 days since she left, and I can not stop thinking about her; it's driving me insane. I'm constantly checking facebook to see if she's online and stuff. I have this urge to go on facebook and send her a huge message about how much I love her and how much I can't stop thinking about her and all this AFC bull**** I've learned to avoid. What would you do in this situation?
What do you suggest I do? My DJ instincts tell me no contact, my possibly AFC instincts tell me otherwise. The thing is, I'm pretty sure this is the woman I'm meant to marry. I'm beyond casual lays, they're boring now. It's odd not talking to her and still hoping she maintains that high interest level, you know? She could just as easily lose interest now that she's abroad and go get with some foreign penis. That's besides the point. My dilemma right now is: 1) Take action, tell her I love her, talk to her every now and then, or 2) No contact, be a challenge, keep a big distance, and hope to maintain her high Interest Level.
I feel like all the Don Juan stuff I learnt has just been negated man, what the hell? Input, please?