"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BassBuddha

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Alright, so I'm on my way back from a concert with two of my friends, one of which is a sex fiend. He says that most girls will fvck if they think that nobody will find out, so one of the best lines is to get them alone and say somthing like "if we had sex right now, would you ever tell another living soul?" This gives them the feeling that you sure as hell won't, so they will adhere to the aforementioned theory. This would almost definitely work if I tried it, but is there any honor to that? Any challenge?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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oakraiderz2

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"There are no shortcuts to any place worth going."- someone in a succes book i have.
 

Sammo

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Why does it make it more honorable if other people know about it? If it works for you then do it. It's true though, if they think noone will find out then they will be much more inclined to ****. It disarms there ASD.
 

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If your into all that PUA terms that is what isolation is for, most stuff have been covered or talked about just have to look around for it. But basically Isolate and you should be trying to escalate from there.
 

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If your looking for some sort of easy magic bullet to getting laid. This is it. But you actually have to be somebody first.

Your still ending up with one step above a ***** though.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ValleyDJing

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BassBuddha said:
He says that most girls will fvck if they think that nobody will find out, so one of the best lines is to get them alone and say somthing like "if we had sex right now, would you ever tell another living soul?" This gives them the feeling that you sure as hell won't, so they will adhere to the aforementioned theory.
man, i was just thinking the same thing the other day! but...itsn't it kind of...unsmooth? verbally asking for sex that is?
 

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This seems like a line to me. I hate lines, and I hate relying too much on words.
 

Vincent

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That's not a bad line but it's still a line. And like all lines they have a huge chance of failure. This is kinda one of those things you'd tell a girl you were already hooking up with to go the next step but not work if you're just hanging out.
 

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well if you are good at it, there is nothing there to stop you from a quick night, i have actually asked girls on this topic, most of them will spend a night-no strings attached if they are interested in them, so go around ,ask around and good luck.
 
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