"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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New sosuave.com home page

What do you think of the new home page

  • Like it.

    Votes: 4 10.3%
  • Dislike it.

    Votes: 19 48.7%
  • It will take some getting use to.

    Votes: 9 23.1%
  • Don't care one way or the other.

    Votes: 7 17.9%

  • Total voters
    39

Hot Ice

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It still looks kinda crappy compared to what kind of a forum can be found within it...
And that's a GOOD thing.
Not too fancy to attract people with Great web design.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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squirrels

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It BURNS!!! MY EYESSSSS!!!

I liked the light text on darker background.

To quote Maddox:

I've chosen a black background for most of my text because it's easier on the eyes than staring at a white screen. Think about it: your monitor is not a piece of paper, no matter how hard you try to make it one. Staring at a white background while you read is like staring at a light bulb (don't believe me? Try turning off the lights next time you use a word processor). Would you stare at a light bulb for hours at a time? Not if you want to keep your vision.


Also, I feel less comfortable looking at it when others are around (ie at work) because it stands out a lot more.
 

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It looks so primative.
 

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Well I think we have to get used to it. Its not like anything posted on the suggestion forum, even good suggestions, are ever taken into consideration.

Allen has the ****tiest policy on swear words. Do you actually beleive that having the ****tiest frontpage ever will make him sad? Me thinks no.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The consensus seems to be that it is uncomfortable for most readers.

Before you saw it and it felt REAL, like the site was REALLY trying to teach you something.

Now it feels like it's trying to sell you on some gimmick.
 

Hot Ice

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Originally posted by squirrels
The consensus seems to be that it is uncomfortable for most readers.

Before you saw it and it felt REAL, like the site was REALLY trying to teach you something.

Now it feels like it's trying to sell you on some gimmick.
THERE IT IS AGAIN!
it's there!! :eek:

The consensus word comes haunt me back again!

We had it in school but the teacher never explained what it means and it started bugging me.. :(
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by squirrels
The consensus seems to be that it is uncomfortable for most readers.

Before you saw it and it felt REAL, like the site was REALLY trying to teach you something.

Now it feels like it's trying to sell you on some gimmick.
Another good point.
 

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The old site was better! As said, this new one looks like other "common" web sites.

I got surprised when I saw the new format.

A very "underground" web page would be much more interesting and it would fit better to this kind of site!
 

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Why? WHY????

Ah, well, it's not like I ever go there anyway. But this is pretty bad.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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m4a1

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I've been designing web-sites since I was 15 years old, and I'll tell you staight up, the design is probably the worst I've ever seen on a site with this much traffic, wtf??

In the HTML source it says:
<meta name="Generator" content="Microsoft FrontPage 4.0">
Heh, man you guys need a real designer, you can't make up the lack of talent with a sh!tty program like Frontpage. :rolleyes:
 

Hot Ice

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Originally posted by m4a1
I've been designing web-sites since I was 15 years old, and I'll tell you staight up, the design is probably the worst I've ever seen on a site with this much traffic, wtf??

In the HTML source it says:
<meta name="Generator" content="Microsoft FrontPage 4.0">
Heh, man you guys need a real designer, you can't make up the lack of talent with a sh!tty program like Frontpage. :rolleyes:
AHahahahah :D

I'm still thinking it's GOOD to have a crappy site there so it doesn't attract that much newbies... our forums are flooded already.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Hot Ice
AHahahahah :D

I'm still thinking it's GOOD to have a crappy site there so it doesn't attract that much newbies... our forums are flooded already.
You guys got it all wrong. From what I understand the reason for changing the home page was to make it more attractive to the masses so that it could generate more revenue. This makes sense.

The fact is that most Net neophytes will gravitate to a more polished looking, generic site than one that reminds them of hackers and pirates which the original page probably did. That original "underground" look was great for all of us that have been here for a while and understand the content there in.

However, for the AFC noob coming on board, they seem to need a more "user friendly" type site. What would be more attractive to them than seeing some stereotypical, Mathew Lesko looking, AFC type guy getting kissed on the cheek by any girl?

Understand that the home page does not necessarily represent the content nor the existing members, it's trying to attract guys that would benefit from the site's content and the experience of the existing members. More noob throughput could mean additional sponsorship (funds) for the site.

Given that, the home page still leaves a lot to be desired but it is serving a specific purpose.
 

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Design

I wouldn't call that professional looking at all. My only questions is why didn't they just use the theme from the forum. This forum design is great, just use it.

That way they will actually match too, instead of them looking like two differntet websites.


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"Veni, vini, vici" - Julius Caesar
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It makes me wonder: Does Allen need help to turn on his computer?
 
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