"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mack Of All Trades

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This Site looks great! Kudos to whoever developed this site. Now, I can type in bold and use quotes. This site is MUCH more user friendly.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Mack Of All Trades
Now, I can type in bold and use quotes. This site is MUCH more user friendly.
Damn, you always could type in bold AND use quotes. Doesnt seem more user friendly to me.
 

Mack Of All Trades

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what i meant is instead of using complicated methods to do these things. It is laid out clearly on the page.
 

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damn i dont like the new site, its real bright and it hurts my eyes....i liked the old one better...
damn i dont like the new site, its real bright and it hurts my eyes....i liked the old one better...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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misunderstood??

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Try to discuss this stuff in the suggestion and feedback forum. So this is being sent there. Any further feedback about the changes should be discussed there.
 

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I like this new forum. Well done!

Thanks Allen for a great site!!!

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