New semester = new girls :) question

[coolness89]

Hey guys,
long time lurker, first time poster

I have a question thats been in my mind for a while now.

New semesters starting at university, new courses with new ladies. Now you guys will say "just sit next to them and say hi"...but the thing is what if there are many empty seats..approximately 100 students in a lecture hall built for 300. It would look weird to just go and sit next to a girl wouldn't it?
Also any pointers, if I do sit next to em, and they wonder why I decided to sit next to them rather than somewhere else.

Yea as you can see, I'm new to the game, I wanna start off '09 well..specially in this department. I will keep asking more questions as they come to my mind.

 

[daygameguy]

Sitting next to them and not talking (due to the lecture) is gonna be bad for your game.

First impression is important.

You want your 1st interaction with a girl to be fascinating for her. She should see you as a fresh source of positive energy and warmth, like a cure for all her problems. So try to put your best foot forward.

Sit anywhere you want. But after class gets over, you have a chance to bump into her, say something out of curiosity, and hook her in.

Remember this rule:

Sometimes you won't get what you want. You have to accept the risk of losing her or not getting her. So fvck the outcome. Go in, dominate, take what you want, direct or indirect.

 

[Allurre]

Don't worry about what others think. If you like a girl, just go ahead, sit next to her. Tell her how you think she'd be interesting to talk to, as compared to the rest of the women in the class.

 

[mtlwlu]

lecture halls are always packed first few classes, then people start to skip. Sit beside who ever, try and get a name asap, make small talk, classes are amazing places to practice small game.

 

[coolness89]

What If

thanks for the replies guys.

I have another question. What if you see some girls all around you, but u never talk to them. Have you blown your chance??
There are quite a few girls I see at uni everyday.. have a lot of classes with me, but I've never talked to em, just eye contact. THey hang out with their crew, so its hard to talk too

 

[Furyguy]

Nah, I do that one ALLLLLL the time, every girl always responds favorably to it.

Just say "Hey, I think we've taken a few classes together but we've never actually met. My name's xxxxx." Easy.

Chances are they're in the exact same boat as you; they've noticed you and wish they had a chance to meet you, but just haven't had an 'acceptable' opportunity yet.

 

[alphamailman]

It's gonna be good next semester. Let the daygame begin again.

 

[coolness89]

OK GUYS ..TODAY WAS A FREAKING BAD DAY!

I was sitting next to some girl (3hr lecture with 10minz break every hr) and all the time she was on her laptop chatting with someone on msn:cuss: THat freakin annoys me. Also whenever u see a girl alone, shes always texting or talking on the phone. GOD DAMN IT LADY, put the damn thing down and talk to the person next to you :cuss:

There was this girl sitting one row below me and some seats away. I saw her glancing at me every now and then. How do you approach during such a situation?? i would obviously have a time limit of 10minutes.
Plus would it even be wise to do it. There are soo many students watching you and if you mess up, you could be a laughing stock. The phrase "don't sh*t in the same plate you eat" comes in mind when I think that.

What do you guys think?

Another thing, seems like I just don't have the guts to go up and say HI. It's cuz I don't know what to start it off with you know. I'm a pretty darn good looking guy, my (girl) friends have said it to me too, so its not just me being ****y. I know girls look at me when I walk in. I just can't produce when the time comes! HELP

 

[sharkbeat]

OK GUYS ..TODAY WAS A FREAKING BAD DAY!

I was sitting next to some girl (3hr lecture with 10minz break every hr) and all the time she was on her laptop chatting with someone on msn:cuss: THat freakin annoys me. Also whenever u see a girl alone, shes always texting or talking on the phone. GOD DAMN IT LADY, put the damn thing down and talk to the person next to you :cuss:

Hey man, you don't wait for the girl to talk to you. That would never happen. You initiate the talking.

There was this girl sitting one row below me and some seats away. I saw her glancing at me every now and then. How do you approach during such a situation?? i would obviously have a time limit of 10minutes.
Plus would it even be wise to do it. There are soo many students watching you and if you mess up, you could be a laughing stock. The phrase "don't sh*t in the same plate you eat" comes in mind when I think that.

That's a damn good reason to talk to her. "Hey, I noticed you kept on glancing at me, [insert a C&F line here]"