New school, new people and girls girls girls.

[Konjac]

School just started and nobody knows each other in my class. There are a couple of fine girls in my grade (I'm 16), but I don't know how to turn one into a gf. At lunch all the girls sat for themselves and guys the same. I didn't want to just "be one of the guys" so I grabbed a chair and sat with three girls at a table and started to talk. Since nobody knew each other it got kind of awkward at times where it was dead quiet, but it went pretty well after that, everyone eased up a bit. I hung out with the girls mostly, since many of the guys are geeks and nerds, so the competition isn't that hard .
Now, should I be aggressive and talk a lot with the girl(s) I like, or should I just relax and take my time? I don't want to be pushy but definitely not "some guy" in the class. Help me out guys.

 

[Konjac]

Oh come on, none of you ever went to high school? Help a fellow out will ya.

 

[Kings_royalty]

Don't concentrate on turning one of these girls into your girlfriend; instead focus on having a good time with them. Be funny, challenging, exciting, mysterious, the rest will fall into place.

Good job on talking the initiative to walk over to them, this move makes you stand out from the rest of the crowd. This projects many different qualities that women like in guys, like confidence.

You definitely want to relax and take your time, but be assertive at the same time. Don’t be afraid to let a girl know that you are into her. Just be careful, you don’t want to seem clingy by ‘saying it’, you want to project this message to her using body language (whoever it might be).

 

[Konjac]

Thanks Royal, I appreciate it.
I think I was too clingy today though, I hung out and paid too much attention to this one girl. Oh well, I'll stop paying attention to her tomorrow, or would that be ineffective because it's too soon?

 

[Skilla_Staz]

Push/PUll is what you're thinking of


These girls are JUST like every girl iin the world. Treat them like it. It doesn't matter if they're from a new school. Treat them as if you've known them for years. Trust me.

 

[Konjac]

Haha Noob, that's some direct and good advice man.

My first week in school is now over, and wow it's been going faaaaaast. I've already talked to every single girl in my class and all the guys know and respect me. The last two days I've gotten to know 3-4 older girls in my school so I've got some options there as well. I think I try too hard though, and sometime I get a feeling that it shows. I guess I'll need to tone it down a bit and just relax and focus on my grades.

Just a quick question, do you think that hitting on one particular girl in the class and hook up with her after a week is too fast? I mean, I'm not good looking, average at most IMO, so I can't expect miracles here.
How long does it usually take for a guy to hook up with a girl in school?