"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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New Roommates = AFCs

mtlwlu

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I moved into my new place yesterday, and one of my new roommate I think is a AFC, he has 3 monitors for his computer and had a s*** load of videogames, didnt seem that outgoing either pretty shy. I havent met the other two yet but theyre friends with him...and you often associate with people that are similar to your personailty, so im assuming they will be similar. I was banking on them being typical universities guys like me who like to get out socialize and party. Hopefully I can convert them.

Any advice on getting them away from touching their own joysticks to getting them to go out with me and get girls to do it for them?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Zero123

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They are more likely to convert you into an AFC. Enjoy World of Warcraft.
 

KontrollerX

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Why does it matter?

Go out chick hunting by yourself and without bringing them along you'll have less competition.

If you just want them to come hang out with you for fun though simply ask em.

Don't assume that guy or any of them are too shy to be outgoing until you ask em to come hang out a few times and repeatedly get shut down.
 

scrouds

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Oh dude. I want 3 monitors, right now I only have 2. I figued I'd wait to get a 24 incher for full HD stuff.

HD porn + a fleshlight and you might give up chicks too. :p
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mr_rogers

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Eh, at least you'll be set if you're ever not feeling up to going out one night. That one guy has enough gaming stuff for three people. :eek:
 
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