Identikit_Radiohead
Don Juan
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
NEW REHAB ROOM video, gtf in here
- Thread starter Identikit_Radiohead
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
BaronOfHair
Master Don Juan
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This is the clusterf-ck aspects of Therapy Culture(Which brought us buzz phrases like Unconditional Acceptance Of Self, Radical Acceptance)and before that, organized religion(Conned us into believing "You'll be redeemed and forgiven, so long as you claim to love God... What you do on a daily basis doesn't matter")have led us into
Entirely too many fellas who haven't been teens in decades continue hopping into bed with damned near everything that has a heartbeat, without vetting these gals. Rationalization being:
"My urges are natural, thus I'm just doing what comes naturally to me. Yeah, I realizing peeing and sh-t-ing wherever I happen to be standing is also natural, yet I don't do so... Let's not complicate matters by injecting nuance and specifics into the conversation though. Doing so is likely to reveal the emptiness of my current thought process"