Livinlifehard
Don Juan
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Ok well lets see here, i am 21, i am in school for culinary, and i work at a upscale italian restraunt here in Las Vegas. I guess i will give as breif of a history i can, a friend recomended this site to me and said to state my problems.
I havent been with many women, because i have been in 2 major relationships, plus i am not one to just go around ****ing (between the 2 relationships i did a little). Ok so in both the 2 big relationships i got burned bad, number 1 is when she left me for my best friend (long time ago), the second one i was planing to move US down here and then when i got things set up down here (i visited vegas to get my job and school and apartment set up), i went back home... almost instantly she tells me she found somone elnce, i was shocked kinda... the inital shock got me for 5 min, but then i relized that i always knew something was going on. So i got my break up sex (which she did all she could to impress me, because she wanted to come to vegas with me), and broke up with her the next day on our 2yr anaversary. and 2 days later moved down to vegas (and sold my race car for move which was hard too).
Anyways that is the real short story of my past, the reason i belive i feel in love with her was because she was hot and good in bed. So now that i think this i hold out on having sex. Because i am afraid that if i have sex with a girl and she is good or what not, i will go out with her for the wrong reasons, and i have gotten pickyer... its not hard to get dates, its just hard for me to stay with someone.... and because i dont have sex with them its easyer to drop them for some reason.
Ok for whats going on now... i was talking to this girl, she said all the right things, was extreamly beautiful and rare looking, and a wonderful kisser. she said she was 18, then later i find out she is 16. i was shocked, then someone told me that 16 was legal and i looked it up and it is here in vegas (everywhere is diffrent). So after a while we kinda stoped communicating and i thought it was good, because i told her she was too young... and i purposly didnt follow it because i knew if i had sex with her i would get attached, and i DIDNT want to get attached to a 16 yr old, that lies probley. so now she contacted me again, and i have this sick feeling because i wana have sex, but then again i know i will get attached so i want to push her away, then another thing is i want to be attached too. I think that the best choice is to just tell her not to talk to me again, even though i really want to see her and such. What do you guys think about that???
And another girl she is 21, graduating UNLV, not easy (which is good), a real good kisser, and really likes me. The only bad thing is that she is way to hardheaded for me, and i hate to sound like a girl... but she dosnt ever talk sweet... i like to talk sweet sometimes, and be told sweet things. anyways i do kinda want to be with her because she knows people, and they have been offering me jobs because i know her and she introduced us, plus i know she will be successfull someday.... anyways i dont know what to do with her.
i date girls but i find it hard to get attached for some reason, and whe i find one i really like its hard not to jump all ove them. i dont play games, i am open (not crying and ****) but if they ask me something i will tell them the truth. is there something wrong with this?
Also where is a good place to go meet girls? i really have a little hard time without going to the strip. anyways thats enough for you guys to read right now.
I havent been with many women, because i have been in 2 major relationships, plus i am not one to just go around ****ing (between the 2 relationships i did a little). Ok so in both the 2 big relationships i got burned bad, number 1 is when she left me for my best friend (long time ago), the second one i was planing to move US down here and then when i got things set up down here (i visited vegas to get my job and school and apartment set up), i went back home... almost instantly she tells me she found somone elnce, i was shocked kinda... the inital shock got me for 5 min, but then i relized that i always knew something was going on. So i got my break up sex (which she did all she could to impress me, because she wanted to come to vegas with me), and broke up with her the next day on our 2yr anaversary. and 2 days later moved down to vegas (and sold my race car for move which was hard too).
Anyways that is the real short story of my past, the reason i belive i feel in love with her was because she was hot and good in bed. So now that i think this i hold out on having sex. Because i am afraid that if i have sex with a girl and she is good or what not, i will go out with her for the wrong reasons, and i have gotten pickyer... its not hard to get dates, its just hard for me to stay with someone.... and because i dont have sex with them its easyer to drop them for some reason.
Ok for whats going on now... i was talking to this girl, she said all the right things, was extreamly beautiful and rare looking, and a wonderful kisser. she said she was 18, then later i find out she is 16. i was shocked, then someone told me that 16 was legal and i looked it up and it is here in vegas (everywhere is diffrent). So after a while we kinda stoped communicating and i thought it was good, because i told her she was too young... and i purposly didnt follow it because i knew if i had sex with her i would get attached, and i DIDNT want to get attached to a 16 yr old, that lies probley. so now she contacted me again, and i have this sick feeling because i wana have sex, but then again i know i will get attached so i want to push her away, then another thing is i want to be attached too. I think that the best choice is to just tell her not to talk to me again, even though i really want to see her and such. What do you guys think about that???
And another girl she is 21, graduating UNLV, not easy (which is good), a real good kisser, and really likes me. The only bad thing is that she is way to hardheaded for me, and i hate to sound like a girl... but she dosnt ever talk sweet... i like to talk sweet sometimes, and be told sweet things. anyways i do kinda want to be with her because she knows people, and they have been offering me jobs because i know her and she introduced us, plus i know she will be successfull someday.... anyways i dont know what to do with her.
i date girls but i find it hard to get attached for some reason, and whe i find one i really like its hard not to jump all ove them. i dont play games, i am open (not crying and ****) but if they ask me something i will tell them the truth. is there something wrong with this?
Also where is a good place to go meet girls? i really have a little hard time without going to the strip. anyways thats enough for you guys to read right now.