"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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New POF/OkCupid message to send as an opener.

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For those killing time or pump and dumping off POF/OkCupid send chicks this new message I made up that's been getting me lots of replies. (Using in NYC area so you may need a different one for there.)

"Can I be completely honest with you..?"

They'll mostly all reply to it based on how good they think you look as it "in a nice way" gets their insecurities going and piques their curiosity to what you have to be "completely honest" with them about.

When they reply: Usually It's a "sure" or "ok". Think of or then find something off their profile to mention in a humorous way. After they reply to that ask them how POF/ OkCupid's been treating them and after they reply to that tell them you aren't on the site much give me your number and I'll give you a call sometime.

In about four messages tops depending on how good you look in your pictures to the chick she'll give her number.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The question I have, NN, is how many of these women have you pumped and dumped?
 

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plate's_empty said:
The question I have, NN, is how many of these women have you pumped and dumped?

Off POF and or OkCupid? ZERO. Why? POF chicks I know for a fact are slags. Don't need to waste time on online chicks who're known slores. Hell I just saw a chick I know personally (another one) which makes it seven I know personally who are complete wastes of time and or psychotic nutjobs. (The one chick has a profile on POF currently and is a hot chick. Looks like the chick I posted in that video thread on the Jlove advice chick. This POF chick I and another dude I work with both know. I told him about her and he was laughing his ass off and said the same thing: that chick is a whack job. I'm sure as hell she's getting bombarded with emails. God help the poor fool who ends up with that chick. If there was ever a BPD chick. The one who's on there now is most definitely one.

OkCupid ALL I've seen are nasty looking whales trying to make themselves seem worldly. Wouldn't waste my time.

I've messed around on POF for the hell of it and tried it on OkCupid and I do get a lot of replies. If you want to try it. If I got ZERO doesn't mean YOU or anyone else won't get laid if they wanted to off those sites.

I meet chicks all the time at my part time, when out, on vacation etc. Don't need online "dating" just fvck around on there to amuse myself when I'm bored.
 

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I just tried this on a babe that I'm sure normally wouldn't reply to me... on OKC.
I might test it out for kicks on a few more out of my area tomorrow and see what happens.
 

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like2jam said:
I just tried this on a babe that I'm sure normally wouldn't reply to me... on OKC.
I might test it out for kicks on a few more out of my area tomorrow and see what happens.

Try it out but your reply rate will depend mostly on how good you look to the chicks in your pictures.

See the below experiment thread on POF and looks below. (I've seen many dudes doing that now on different sites.) The top 10% in looks and or physique (can't show shirtless anymore) get the most replies from all types of slores on POF. You can get a lot too if you look pretty good and look like you work out. The first message they'll read and be a little bit more intrigued if it stands out a bit and is different from the normal BS they get.

http://puahate.com/showthread.php?t=21533
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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lol I did the same this two days ago. Used your opener:

Me: Can I be completely honest with you?...

Her: Sure

Me: I want your number, no debating!

(2 days later the f*ck?)

Her: haha I guess I have no choice but to comply! (gives number)

I had completely forgotten about this girl and I suddenly have her number in my inbox.
 
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