"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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jimjam

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Gents, valued advice appreciated.

Had a date scheduled for Monday. She cancels but wants to reschedule. I say ok, how bout Thursday. She gets back to me and wanrs to meet Friday.

Should i just say the hell with her?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Desdinova

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Why? She was co-operative in re-scheduling. With new plates, you need to strike while the iron is hot. Cancel any plans you have for Friday and lock her in.

If she stands you up or cancels again, then get rid of her.
 

parkthebus

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Probably just wanted to do Friday as she won't have work the next day. Don't over think.
 

jimjam

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Rock n roll

Thanks for the replies.

On for Friday. So far, so good.
 
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